#41 - Nadja Lasbeck - How To Identify Your Sexual Needs, Common Kinks You Shouldn’t Be Ashamed Of & How Childhood Trauma Blocks Joy - Intimacy Coach/Lecturer

If you're wondering how to identify your sexual needs, feel that you're stuck in an unfulfilling relationship or are simply curious about autism, neurodivergence or childhood trauma then today's episode might be a helpful resource. My guest today is Nadja Lasbeck, she's an intimacy coach, relationship therapist, lecturer & a mother. Today’s Time Stamped Chapter List In Full: 00:05:19 Nadja's experience with Joy 00:08:41 Nadja's hilarious Halloween story 00:11:11 Why we laugh in awkward social situations 00:16:03 Why Nadja finds it hard to experience joy 00:19:39 Why we look at the past through rose-tinted glasses 00:21:18 Why carry out addictive behaviours that make us feel bad 00:23:25 Why saunas are a great example of impermanence 00:25:37 Whether or not you are born with autism or if it can develop throughout childhood and adolescence 00:29:09 Why learning about neurodivergence and autism might make you appear more autistic 00:33:24 How it seems like more of us are neurodiverse than neurotypicals 00:33:59 Why Nadja believes her autism makes less people like her 00:40:04 Why my attraction to a resting bitch face might actually be attraction to neurodivergence 00:43:39 How to identify and communicate sexual needs 00:46:32 What Nadja's secret kink is 00:50:31 Examples of common kinks which you shouldn't be ashamed of 00:57:55 Whether buying sexy lingerie for your partner at Christmas is a selfish act 01:01:46 Differing perspectives on using mas******ion for self-soothing 01:07:14 The strange mental state that men enter after eja*****ion, also known as post-n*t clarity 01:19:12 What Nadja has changed their mind about recently 01:22:05 Varieties in a man's sperm type and how that affects survival strategy 01:25:13 The hardest thing Nadja has ever done in her life 01:29:02 Nadja's deepest fear 01:35:13 What Nadja would say to a younger self 01:36:16 Nadja's favourite sound 01:41:16 Why music is a bit like p**n but with more magic 01:42:29 If Nadja was on her deathbed, one lesson she would like to leave behind 01:43:21 My alternate perspective on the regrets of the dying 01:54:05 Being unable to draw boundaries in relationships 01:56:35 Why we stay in unfulfilling relationships 02:01:50 The question that Nadja is asking herself each day 02:03:50 Why we are making the ego great again 02:07:21 My recent life-altering ego death experience 02:10:33 Whether there really is a difference between imagination and reality 02:18:15 Figuring out who we are without our Trauma 02:22:57 Nadja's contact details Please check out the show notes for links to today’s guest and other resources. I hope you enjoy the episode. #intimacyadvice ***LINKS*** Nadja’s Website: https://bit.ly/46L7hLi Nadja’s Instagram: https://bit.ly/3M1vrHO MY STUFF: Awaken Out Of Context Podcast (YouTube & Podcast Links): https://bit.ly/3tk8FVv Follow Me On Instagram (@awakenoutofjason): https://bit.ly/3RAkKQj

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