In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, novelist, hostess, old money and etiquette expert and recovering debutante Kiki Astor unpacks the awkward etiquette mistakes, social faux pas, and embarrassing moments that happen to everyone — whether you’re navigating high society, old money circles, or just a tricky cocktail party. From using the wrong fork at a formal dinner, spilling champagne at a gala, or being snubbed by a shop assistant, to passing gas in public, stopping up a toilet, or being pooped on by a bird, Kiki reveals how to recover with impeccable manners, polished social skills, and quiet confidence. Explore why grace under pressure is the ultimate status symbol, how to turn a mortifying moment into a masterclass in poise, and why another person’s bad manners say far more about them than about you. Drawing on etiquette traditions, social graces, and real-life examples from Oprah Winfrey to Jennifer Lopez, this episode is your chic survival guide to overcoming humiliation, avoiding social blunders, and mastering the art of old money composure — no dramatic “Pretty Woman” scene required.

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