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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
This episode is brought to you by Airbnb. I am desperate to get to Greece. Can you blame me? I'm in Greek salad, ocean swims, maybe a donkey or two. Michael and I want to take the whole blended family on holiday this summer. And when I told my team, they all started laughing because Sally, one of the brilliant people I work with, is also desperately keen to go to Greece.
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As a child, I didn't have a lot growing up. I didn't come from a rich family. So I was very driven to be successful. And so everything I achieved was not enough. And I thought, well, what if I don't own anything? What if I literally have a few clothes and things that I can't let go of?
Luckily, I've got a very tolerant husband who, when I said, I want to sell the house and I want to get rid of everything, he said, OK. And I said, but I mean everything. He said, yeah, OK, that's fine. So this task of having this huge house full of furniture, full of stuff, I then had to start the process of decluttering and getting rid of everything, which is huge. What was that like?
Everything you need is within yourself. Everything you need is within yourself. So all these things actually mean nothing. I'm not very sentimental when it comes to things. So I started by getting rid of big things. But then, I mean, I would have loved it if everything would have gone in a backpack. But sadly, with documents and pieces of paper and bits and bobs, we ended up with 10 boxes.
10 boxes.
10 boxes. Your whole life was in 10 boxes.
Yeah. And I remember when I had one of my biggest paychecks and I had everything I ever wanted, my first thought was, how can I get out of this situation? How can I stop wanting more? How can I not have this big house? How can I not have these cars? And how can I be happy?
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Chapter 2: What moment led Gail to realize that having more doesn't equal happiness?
Yes. And we can talk about one of the great... spiritual skills, or leadership skills is learning to let go. Learning to let go of betrayals, disappointments, the past. Fourth question is, what does my ideal day ahead look like? So you have a little script. So you're setting some intentions. And that brings us to the fifth question. What needs to be said at the end?
And the more we can connect to the shortness of life, the more we can connect to our mortality, the more we're going to start to live to the point versus being busy, being busy, spending our days chasing trivial pursuits.
And I think if we could just connect to our mortality every morning and strip away complexity and administrivia and even holding back the love in our hearts, holding back on the things our instinct says we should do, but we're, oh, what if I fail? What if I'm laughed at? What if I look like a kook? And we just live from that instinct. I think we'd be so much happier in our lives.
So when you say at the end, you mean at the end of our lives. You know, it's like, how am I going to feel on my deathbed? I turned down a job. I fell in love at 50. And I turned down a job that would mean that I probably wouldn't be able to be with my boyfriend in the evenings because I'd have to get up so early to go to work.
Um, because I thought to myself on my deathbed, will I be pleased I did that job or will I be sad I didn't spend more time with Michael? And I thought, I want to spend more time with Michael. So it's quite good when you think of that, like, is that what you mean by that?
That's exactly what I mean. Another, another little mental tool that I use is that thank, thank goodness I'm healthy. But if I'm lucky, I have 25 years left to live, maybe 30. And so I call this my 25 summers question. So when I'm about to make a decision, I say, well, I roughly have 25 Christmases left, 25 summers.
Wow, that's quite sobering when you say it like that.
When you say it like that, you say, okay, I better get this done, or I better do this ethical ambition, or I better take this risk, or I better chase that love story. So I think death is not depressing.
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Chapter 3: How did Gail's journey of decluttering impact her sense of freedom?
Thinking about death is not depressing, I think. thinking about death is actually inspiring because then it just sharpens you on what's most important in life.