Relationships can be a source of deep joy—and deep pain. And when life throws something as life-altering as a cancer diagnosis your way, the people around you don't always respond how you expect. Some relationships grow stronger. Others fade, fracture, or fall away entirely. In this episode of Better Than Before Breast Cancer, I share one of my favorite perspectives on relationships, inspired by motivational speaker Lisa Nichols. Her beautiful insights have helped me—and so many others—find peace and let go of the guilt, sadness, or confusion that can come when relationships shift or end. We'll talk about how to reframe the way you view relationships, the role they've played in your life, and why it's okay (and even healthy) to outgrow certain connections. This applies to romantic partners, friends, coworkers, and more—because survivorship often means seeing life, and the people in it, through a new lens. This episode is for you if: You've felt disappointed by how someone responded during or after your cancer journey You're grieving the end of a friendship, partnership, or connection You want to feel more empowered and less guilty about the changing dynamics in your relationships You're looking for a healing, grounded perspective that supports your emotional growth as a survivor Resources: Lisa Nicols on relationships Books: 13 Things Mentally Strong Women Don't Do: Own Your Power, Channel Your Confidence, and Find Your Authentic Voice for a Life of Meaning and Joy Follow me on Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest YouTube

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