In this episode, we welcome Deb Benfield, registered dietitian and body image coach, to discuss navigating the midlife and aging journey through an anti-diet, body-liberation framework. We explore the heavy social pressures women face from anti-aging narratives, diet culture, and longevity trends that push us into constant "body combat." Deb shares her journey writing Unapologetic Aging, explaining why she fought to include trauma-informed somatic check-ins and permission-based choices for readers. Together, we unpack the fear of losing relevance, why natural body changes can actually be protective, and how to reconnect with internal values rather than external rules. We also touch on intimacy and embodiment, showing how stepping out of binary body standards opens the door to genuine pleasure and peace.Key TakeawaysAging is a natural time to clarify personal values and step away from external rules.Midlife body changes can be protective adaptations rather than problems that need fixing.Unearned body privileges pressure women to try to pass as younger to maintain safety.Internal Family Systems and trauma-informed practices help restore self-compassion while growing older.Being truly embodied allows you to experience authentic pleasure, freedom, and intimacy in aging.ResourcesDeb Benfield's Substack: Unapologetic Aging https://debrabenfield.substack.com/Deb Benfield's Instagram: @agingbodyliberation https://www.instagram.com/agingbodyliberation/?hl=enConnect with Nina and JennieNina Manolson M.A. Body-Peace® Founder & Coach Stay connected & pick up your FREE Practicing Body-Peace Journal:⁠⁠ https://ninamanolson.com/practicingbodypeace/⁠⁠ Contact: [email protected] Connect:⁠ ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/bodypeacepodcast⁠Jennie Kramer LCSW-R,CEDS Subscribe to Jennie’s Newsletter & a complimentary 15min phone consult:⁠⁠ https://mbhany.com/connect-with-jennie/⁠⁠ Contact: [email protected]

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