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Brooke and Jeffrey

Second Date Update Classic: Red Flaggy Much?

24 Nov 2025

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Chapter 1: What restaurant faux pas impacted the date?

0.031 - 8.806 Jose

Welcome to your second day podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and I know someone who has a lot of opinions about restaurants in this room. I'm looking at him.

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8.866 - 12.372 Brooke

Oh, is it me? It's you. I wasn't sure if it was like he's getting taken on dates.

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12.392 - 19.103 Jose

No, no, no. I mean, would someone screwing up at a restaurant be a huge red flag for you?

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19.444 - 26.902 Brooke

What do you mean by that? Hold on. Well... Like, screwing up, like, what do you mean, the order? I can't tell you exactly because it's coming up in the second thing.

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Chapter 2: How do opinions about restaurant behavior affect dating?

26.922 - 27.103 Brooke

Oh, okay.

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27.123 - 29.369 Alexis

It's going to happen while he's still holding the menu at the beginning.

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29.75 - 34.463 Brooke

Okay, well, you should know how to go on a date at a restaurant, so obviously this would be a red flag.

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34.543 - 46.189 Jose

Okay, Jose's not dating you, but you know what? I don't think that's what he's asking for anyway. You're going to hear what's going on in this second date, but we love to start with your comments because you mean so much to us. That's true. That's true. We're thankful for you.

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46.209 - 55.369 Alexis

We are. And Marijan comments a lot, but I liked this one. They said, I might be weird, but I like spoilers or teasers, so I read the comments before I listen.

56.611 - 57.814 Brooke

I actually...

57.794 - 87.447 Brooke

know someone like wait you do that alexis don't you watch movies or like yeah she loves i know and i skip to the end of the books first and i read what happens at the end before i go i get too much anxiety i was like somebody around in my life does this too what is wrong with you i need to know what happens so that i can read in peace or watch in peace so you relate to mary marijan yeah anyways thanks for leaving the comment and for adding alexis i love it your second date starts right now

88.085 - 89.86 Jordy

Second date update.

91.19 - 104.49 Jeffrey

The results are in. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Because recent studies have shown about 50% of couples now meet online compared to just 22% only five years ago.

Chapter 3: What was the listener's experience meeting his date?

295.893 - 304.426 Jordy

We tried to order some quiche Lorraine, and I said, quickie Lorraine. I mean, I didn't take French in high school. Like, excuse me.

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304.767 - 307.351 Brooke

Yeah. Well, you're also clashing with Tabachi Ball in the German.

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307.371 - 312.98 Jose

Don't want to be elitist by being able to say quiche.

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313.42 - 323.416 Jordy

That's a tough word. What was her reaction? She totally laughed it off. It was a little embarrassing. But after that, I think it kind of lightened the mood a little bit. And from there, the date was great.

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323.596 - 330.367 Jose

Especially if you can be self-deprecating about it. You know what I mean? It could almost even turn into your inside joke together. Yeah.

330.547 - 333.512 Brooke

Oh, let me go to the next thing. I speak German. And then you just ruin it.

333.532 - 348.605 Jordy

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So we actually kissed at the end of the date. So that was nice. And she was the one who texted me that night saying that, she got home safe and let you wait to see me. So like, it seems super clear, right?

348.745 - 350.23 Jose

Are you sure you didn't read that wrong too?

350.972 - 353.54 Jordy

There's no way to read that wrong.

Chapter 4: How did the listener ask his date out?

549.574 - 550.275 Jeffrey

Hey, is this Harper?

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551.176 - 552.398 Unknown

Yeah, who's calling?

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552.418 - 555.141 Jeffrey

We're a radio show calling called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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555.522 - 556.443 Brooke

Hi, good morning.

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556.683 - 557.504 Jose

Hi, Harper.

557.865 - 561.849 Jeffrey

That half of the room isn't very excited to talk to you, obviously, but... I don't think she's excited to talk to us.

561.869 - 565.274 Jose

This half of the room is. She's very confused. She doesn't want to come in too hot, Jeff.

565.694 - 574.425 Jeffrey

What are you calling for? See? We're working. This is something we do called the Second Date Update, and one of our listeners named Jordi asked us to reach out to you.

576.886 - 580.369 Jose

Ringing any bells? I said, ooh.

Chapter 5: What embarrassing moment happened during the date?

655.635 - 671.743 Unknown

No, he was like, these are all the days that I'm available. And I have this belief, me and my friends do, that if there's a guy between the age 24 and 32-ish, if they have that much time to hang out, it really means that he's a loser. Oh.

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671.723 - 676.397 Brooke

Wait, a loser? Yikes. Wow.

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676.417 - 684.079 Jeffrey

You're calling him a loser because he gave you multiple options of times where he wants to hang out because he likes you?

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684.177 - 698.419 Unknown

Yeah, because like they're all in a row and it's like he should be grinding away planning for his future. Maybe he's not working or like working on a promotion or getting somewhere.

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698.439 - 709.155 Jose

Maybe he is. Like in my mind, you're a waitress. So he's probably just trying to give you options because it's probably hard to align schedules. Like he probably figures you work on the weekends.

709.135 - 712.12 Unknown

I mean, that sounds like an excuse he'd use, I guess.

713.722 - 727.003 Jeffrey

It sounds like he's doing it for you because nowadays we hear from a lot of women who tell us guys don't put in enough effort. They want the easy thing. They don't really care. But Jordy sounds like the total opposite, like he's willing to do whatever just to see you.

727.103 - 729.927 Alexis

Maybe he'll make plans the other days that you say you can't.

730.168 - 737.539 Unknown

Yeah, but he didn't say that. He was like, I'm wide open. And I'm like, well, what else are you doing with your life? Just pursuing me?

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