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Brooke and Jeffrey

Second Date Update UPDATE: Age Is Just A Bummer

04 Dec 2025

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Chapter 1: What are the highlights from the hosts' Spotify Wrapped experience?

0.031 - 21.803 Jose

we are just riding the high right now thank you so much again for all of your support this spotify wrapped has got us just in the feels yeah comments and all your love yeah honestly it reminds us why we do this and that is so cool so somebody asked me how many minutes i have listened to our show yes all of them i was like i literally it's not in my top and they were shocked i'm like

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21.783 - 28.89 Brooke

I do the show. You think I'd go home and listen after? But these people beat us because they listen back years and years and years. So they actually win.

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28.95 - 45.806 Jose

They know us more than us. Yeah, absolutely. Well, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so much for being here. Before we get to a brand new update update, remember the way this works is we're going to air the original time that the couple was on the show. And then in part three, we're going to have them back on the phone to see what's happened since.

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45.827 - 67.209 Brooke

And there's going to be a little commercial in between. So listen to it, script it, you know, whatever you want. Yeah, exactly. And comment. Yes, Cindy said, Spotify says I'm in the top 1% of second date update listeners. At this point, I'm emotionally invested in strangers who can't text back. Yep, that's it. That's it. That's the whole thing. Love from South Africa.

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67.23 - 67.61 Unknown

Oh, that's so cool.

67.63 - 72.615 Jose

Yeah. That's the other cool thing. We've reached over 165 countries this year, which is crazy.

72.636 - 76.443 Unknown

I didn't even know there was that many. Oh. Isn't there like 20?

77.005 - 84.284 Brooke

I love looking at the list and there's like two listeners in one country and I'm like, I need to meet those two people. Absolutely. So thank you again for being here.

84.324 - 87.312 Jose

Your brand new update update starts right now.

Chapter 2: What was the awkward comment made by the server during the date?

227.544 - 234.854 Jeffrey

Tell us about the girl that you met recently. What's her name? Mandy. Okay, Mandy.

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234.874 - 237.718 Jose

And I'm guessing you didn't meet Mandy on the app.

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238.103 - 243.369 Jeffrey

I did meet Mandy on an app. Was it the app Coffee Meets Metamucil?

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243.99 - 246.153 Jose

Jeff, that's low. That's too low.

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246.453 - 249.196 Jeffrey

No, it was Tinder, asshole.

249.317 - 253.101 Jose

I deserve that. I like Phil Spicy.

253.402 - 262.487 Jeffrey

That's good. We like it. Okay. So walk us through the meeting and the meetup with Mandy. Yes, so we went to this really great seafood spot.

262.507 - 269.039 Jose

Oh, that's cool. Seafood's good. It's a dinner date. And what were you feeling beforehand? Were you nervous, excited?

269.219 - 275.009 Phil

Yeah, you know, recently divorced. It's been a long time since I had a first date, so I was a little nervous.

Chapter 3: How did Phil feel about the age comment made during his date?

390.029 - 414.433 Brooke

not really i was a little taken aback i was a little embarrassed myself okay okay when you're out someone older you expect it like everybody plays that game where you see a couple like that out and you're like you think they're a couple or just a dad and daughter yeah maybe you see people in line yeah actually you're sorry sometimes it's fun to play that game yeah it's a gold digger situation yeah they're related so okay okay have you reached out to her since the date

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415.308 - 417.952 Phil

I have. I just haven't heard back.

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418.012 - 426.726 Jeffrey

And I don't want to be one of those people that over text, you know. What are you doing? Are you just doing straight phone calls? I can text. Oh, really?

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426.806 - 433.336 Jose

We're acting like he's 85 years old. He doesn't sound that old. You've got to be in like your 50s or something, right? Your 60s.

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433.677 - 434.999 Phil

No comment. No.

435.159 - 435.68 Jeffrey

Okay.

435.7 - 435.78 Jose

Hey.

436.942 - 441.307 Jeffrey

Well, a lot of times a good way to reach people now is through DMs.

441.327 - 441.808 Unknown

Yeah.

Chapter 4: What was Phil's experience like on his date with Mandy?

535.353 - 538.116 Jeffrey

And that's where we come in trying to help Phil.

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538.516 - 542.36 Unknown

Are we worried she is hitting him up and it's on TikTok and he just doesn't know how to work it? You guys, stop it.

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542.38 - 554.192 Jose

He is not that old, eh? I mean, he's rusty because he was divorced. That's right. I mean, the one thing you may not understand is that there's a lot of, like, ghosting in dating now. Exactly.

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554.172 - 559.866 Brooke

Like, it's pretty normal. And some people just like to go out for a dinner. Yeah, no, that's a good point.

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559.886 - 568.527 Phil

Phil, did you know that? Did I know that the thing that happened to me happens? Well, it happens all the time.

568.547 - 576.221 Jose

And you shouldn't take it personally because it's not a reflection of who you are or what you can offer in a relationship.

576.241 - 577.323 Unknown

I like it. That was a little spicy.

577.504 - 584.697 Jeffrey

And Phil, if we can get her, I'm not going to bring up the age thing at all to her unless she says it first. Is that cool with you? Yeah.

585.017 - 597.092 Unknown

Because if it's not about the age, then why even bring it up? It shouldn't be because she, again, knows how old you are when you meet on a dating app. Which I keep forgetting. It's not like you bombarded her or surprised her.

Chapter 5: How did Phil handle the embarrassing moment with the waiter?

885.089 - 885.95 Jose

It was a joke.

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886.17 - 902.414 Jeffrey

It was a joke. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, we got it. We got it. We got it. Phil, it just sounds like maybe between you and Mandy, there wasn't so much romantic feelings going on. It was more like a father figure wanting to help a younger person out. That was the vibe that she was getting.

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902.754 - 906.66 Phil

Yeah. So what do you want, Mandy? How do I how do I be more romantic towards you?

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907.163 - 914.356 Jeffrey

How do we shift a little bit here? You just have to think about it differently, Mandy. He's not an older guy. He's just classic.

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916.38 - 918.163 Jose

Like the most interesting man in the world.

918.203 - 919.105 Jeffrey

Yeah.

919.125 - 919.886 Unknown

Ooh, sexy.

922.03 - 928.362 Jeffrey

No, you got to look at it in a positive way. Like you will never get a 2 a.m. Hey, you up text from Phil.

928.342 - 929.844 Brooke

Until he learns how to do that.

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