#124: This is an IshYOU, Not an IshME (aka: When an issue has nothing to do with you)

Ok. So there's a problem. Maybe someone's saying it's your fault. Or they're implying it. Or you're just assuming it. What do you do? Well, if you're like a lot of folks, you go into Auto-Wrong Mode. You question your right to have an opinion contrary to others...to implement a boundary...to say no to a request You assume you're wrong, you've created the problem, and now it's your job to fix it You lose sight of what you TRULY think, feel, want and need NOT ANYMORE, friend. I used to ask clients to consider another perspective ("What if this problem has 100% to do with them, and 0% to do with you?") but now - thanks to a brave, wise, empowered young woman - I have this gem of a question: What if this is an ish-YOU, not an ish-ME? Listen for how to free yourself from assuming you're in the wrong, and from taking responsibility for being "different" just so there isn't a problem anymore!   LINKS! What's your DECISION STYLE? Take the Quiz! Need to say NO? Here's your 11-minute Crash Course on Saying NO Guilt-Free. Ready to talk about getting clear, intentional & sure of your choices? Book your free consultation for a no-strings conversation about your goals and if this coaching is right for you!

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