Connect With Kait: https://kaitwillett.com/Support My Work: https://buymeacoffee.com/kaitwillettMost people under 35 say they want a committed relationship, yet only a fraction are actually pursuing one. I break down what stands between the wanting and the doing: women policing women for settling, for staying, or for wanting marriage early, and men policing men for being visibly invested or committing at all.Then I cover the accelerant, an algorithm that replaced a friend group of six with millions of strangers rewarded for being harsher than the friends ever were. The result is exactly what the surveys show: a majority who want love, a minority who pursue it, and a growing group who learned to say they never wanted it at all.Your environment is making your relationship decisions, and nobody agreed to the rules it enforces.

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