“At the end of the day, in order to attract the partnership you want, it’s about doing the work and making the space to get there.” - Lacy “You’re not doing the work just to secure your partner more intensely. You’re doing it to secure your own worth so you can have these other aspects of your life sort of come in and fulfill so that the reliance on that partner is not as strong.” - Jessica “It’s fascinating how much you can change your outer reality when you change your inner reality.” - Lacy We couldn’t think of a more fitting day to dive into the topic of Love & Partnership — Valentine’s Day! In this episode, Lacy & Jessica talk about how to unblock around partnership & love, how to spot tests when calling in your partner, what it means to be trauma bonded, how triggers and doing this work affects every area of your life, & more! This episode will be expansive for people in any stage of a relationship, whether you’re looking for a partner, in a partnership, or need to exit a relationship. Happy manifesting! In This Episode We Talk About: How partnership really comes back to ourselves and self-improvement rather than the outside experience The definition of the authentic self How it feels to be tapped into your authentic self The correlation between connecting with the authentic self and the quality of partnership Unblocking in partnership What we imprint from our caretakers of what the dynamic of love is and what it means to us Trauma bonding, and what things to watch out for versus what can be worked through together How we mirror back to each other what we need to work on and unblock The commonalities between all relationships The different stages of partnership The distinction between a mirror and a lesson Some red flags for when a situation may be toxic or you may need to get out of it Lacy’s three non-negotiables What happens if you don’t pass a test and the energetic lessons around that Being sexually empowered versus using sexuality to feel love The differences between ego wants and our true core wants How love is a big component attached to other needs we have in society Grief as a lens for growth Doing your own work first, then inviting your partner to work together What to look at if you’re feeling perpetually single Tests within relationship/partnership How healthy arguments can be beneficial Working through codependency Energetics around exiting a relationship How everything really comes down to us and doing our own work to find flow in relationship How the more enough you are, the more you are going to attract in what you really want How we are our own creators; we don’t need to wait on anyone else Resources: To Be Magnetic Instagram: @tobemagnetic The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses! 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Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. 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