Feminine as F*ck
Episodes
256: How to be a feminine woman that's also a highly successful one
19 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today Monica is talking about how to be both feminine and successful, and how not to see those two ideas as being at odds. She dives into: 🌹The fal...
255: WWMD: Should I let my boyfriend move in with me?
14 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today on the show Monica answers the WWMD from listener, Brandy. How do you know when it's time to move in with a partner? Find out in todays episode....
254: How to be the masculine, whilst she's making the money
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about how to be the masculine when your female partner is earning the money. It is very common now that women are making more mon...
253: The Feminine Female Breadwinner
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I will be teaching you about: The energy behind money, feminine energy and masculine energy The exact things that I do to stay in my feminine, even...
252: WWMD: My sister told me that becoming a successful life coach is one in a million
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Monica answers what she would do if if her sister told her that becoming a successful life coach was a one in a million ch...
251: Why selling is sexy and investing is a turn on
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about why selling is sexy, and investing is a turn on. No matter what area you are in, we are always selling ourselves. Whether you...
250: WWMD: "Who should text first?"
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Who should text first? In this episode Monica answers a question from a listener who has been receiving backlash for believing the guy should text fir...
249: BONUS: How to get your man to do the work
29 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I talk about how to get your man to ‘do the work’. I chat about: ❤️🔥 How you doing the work and becoming the ‘light’...
248: Why being "Mr Nice Guy" isn't making you feel like THE man
29 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are going to talk about ‘nice guy syndrome’ for men, this will be helpful for you to notice these behaviours and stop doing it. For the l...
247: WWMD: "My man doesn't go down on me and I have mentioned to him that I like it."
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The WWMD segment today is extra juicy 💦 Monica shares what she would do if her man wasn't going down on her after having mentioning to him that she...
246: Redefining what it means to be "a man" | Leading yourself, knowing yourself and being the man you want to be
22 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I want to talk about redefining what it means to be a man. In society a masculine man is painted in one way and I think we are finally coming aw...
245: Anxious/avoidant attachment styles towards money, refunds and manifestations
18 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I want to talk about attachment styles towards money, refunds, debt, and manifestation. I dive into: 🌹 What anxious and avoidant attachment s...
244: WWMD: "How do I stay in my feminine whilst being a leader in a male dominated workplace?"
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of WWMD Kates asks what Monica would do if she was constantly coming up against challenges and hitting a wall. Kate also wants to...
243: The difference between leading her and being an authoritarian | redefining masculinity, integrity, insecurities and ego (Men listen to this too)
15 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about the difference between leading and being a dictator or authoritarian to your partner. This is an episode for the men, ladie...
242: Girl chat #5 | Dealing with overwhelm, the power of outsourcing, why you need to implement masculine structure, how to increase productivity and reduce procrastination
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of girl chat, Monica and Louise dive into: 🌹 BTS of running a business (what people don’t tell you) 🌹 Dealing with overw...
241: WWMD: “I am growing, my partner is procrastinating… and I don’t want to mother him”
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder what Monica would do if she was growing but her partner was procrastinating? Find out in todays episode of 'What Would Monica Do?' ⇢ Wa...
240: Staying in abundance even in economic downturn | Pivoting your business, finding opportunity and money mindset
08 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk about staying in abundance even in economic downturn. You can still tap into the frequency and energy of abundance even when everyone aro...
239: What are your money leaks?
04 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about money leaks, and I want to kick off with a chicken nugget I said that someone emailed to me.. “Investing in yourself ...
238: How men and women can reduce hormonal imbalances and optimize their health | PMS, fertility, inflammation and testosterone
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about balancing your hormones, this is an episode that men also need to listen to because men have hormones too. I dive into:...
237: Girl chat #4 | Green flags, Red flags & How to Spot a Mommy's Boy
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise chat about their Green flags and riff on: ❤️🔥 What gives them the ‘ick’ ❤️🔥 Ma...
236: Is BDSM a Trauma Response? | Sexuality, Validation, Disassociation & Seasons of Sex
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadochism and Masochism (BDSM). I am all for BDSM, kink and all of the th...
235: Roe v Wade Q+As | Where is abortion legal still? What does this mean for plan B pill? How do I trust my body?
25 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am answering your questions that have come up from the episode that I did regarding Roe V. Wade, I have gotten my research from reputable arti...
234: Did I give up on NYC? | Grounding in Atlanta, Quantum leaps and moving for love
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is all about how I am navigating this new season of my life. I grew up in New York and it is the only city in the world that felt like ho...
233: Understanding your "zones" and why your shit holds you back from upleveling. | Intuition vs fear, why your man isn't leading, spiritual bypassing and feeling 'frozen' in life
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about understanding the blocks to your zones. You have different zones throughout your life, different zones of genius, love and mo...
232: Abortions & Feeling empowered during Roe v. Wade
17 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are going to talk about abortion, Roe v. Wade and the influence that these things have on us as women. Regardless of the reason of your...
231: Girl chat #3 | Being the female 'breadwinner' & staying in your feminine
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise dive into: · Monica’s feelings about relocating to the South · The expansive nature of...
230: Why the 'girl boss' movement is hurting women
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about how the ‘girl boss’ movement is hurting women. Our core desires as a feminine woman are to feel connected, loved and no...
229: Losing weight from a place of love | Energetic & emotional weight, trauma & weight gain
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about losing weight from a place of love and I am so excited to jam on this. I have had my own journey with my body and let’s be ...
228: Masculine & Feminine energy in life, business and dating
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is from an interview I did on the ‘Make Shift Happen’ Podcast with Samantha Daily. We discuss masculine and feminine energy in relati...
227: Girl Chat #2 | The energetics of getting a man to claim you
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise dive into: · Monica receiving backlash on her views of being led by your man · Balancing...
226: Talking transformative, healing sex with Jamie Rea | What masculine men need, what it takes for a man to commit and what emasculation feels like
09 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode I spoke with Jamie Rea a Relationship & Transformation Coach, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Filmmaker, Storyteller, Comedian an...
225: My journey with manifestation and building wealth
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about my journey with manifestation and building wealth. I remember sitting at my desk in Sydney with New York on my vision board...
224: Taking Sub/ Dom outside of the bedroom
02 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode I am talking about the submissive and dominant dynamic (sub dom) outside of the bedroom. The reality is that for majority of us, ...
223: GIRL CHAT | Stop texting men all the time & are you your own red flag?
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Girl Chat, Monica and Louise dive into a juicy convo touching on: 🌹 Relationships 🌹Red flags 🌹Healing sex ...
222: What actually is manifestation?
30 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about what manifestation actually is and what wealth frequency actually is. Let’s break it all down in Monica lingo. I dive int...
221: Owning our gender differences with Mike Gunner from Married at First Sight | Emasculation, backlash & BTS of MAFS
26 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am speaking with Mike Gunner who appeared on season six of Married at First Sight (MAFS) back in 2019. In episode 41 Mike said that women cann...
220: How to reset your energy and get out of a slump | My biggest meltdown
23 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I want to talk about resetting your energy, resetting your vibe and getting back into a frequency that you were in a couple of weeks or months a...
219: How old is too old to date?
15 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about a topic that came up with a friend of mine. How old is too old to date, is there an age that a person is too old for you to d...
218: Why you're making dating hard for yourself
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about how dating can be draining but doesn’t need to be. I did a really good job, (before my current situation) of going into dat...
217: Is Feminism causing men to stop pursuing women?
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s discussion is in answer to a client question, is feminism causing men to stop pursuing? In this episode I dive into the following: · ...
216: How we can support the men in our lives
25 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about how to support the men in your life. Whether it be your uncle, colleague, partner or father, it doesn’t matter. It is so ...
215: I fired everybody and this is why | All the juicy business updates that you are dying to hear
18 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I have a business update for you because I feel like people need permission to do some things and there are a lot of points for me to jam on, I ...
214: Business Q&A
11 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I love Q&A’s because I can just riff and chat about what you really want to know, this is such a juicy episode today with a bunch of nuggets on ...
213: How to manifest the business of your dreams
29 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode I talk to you about how to manifest the business of your dreams. I want to also preface that when I say the business of your drea...
212: BONUS EPISODE🎙What you need to know to call in your dream home
24 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I chat with past BABA client, Marina who is a Realestate Agent and Realestate Coach. I feel like so many of us, including myself are n...
211: How trauma shows up in your business
21 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode I talk all about how trauma shows up in your business. Your problems in your business actually tell me where your trauma is sitti...
210: Feminine business myths
14 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I want to talk to you about the feminine business myths that are everywhere on social media right now. Some business coaches claim and preach th...
209: The link between sexual energy and money. Plus let's redefine success
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is an interview I did on the Activated Woman Podcast. This is a juicy one talking everything self-trust, my relationship with alcohol, wh...
208: Are you escaping reality with spirituality?
28 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode I ask, are you escaping reality with spirituality? Where we slip up when it comes to spirituality and trust is when we use it in ...
207: What is trauma?
21 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking all about trauma and explaining what exactly it is for anyone who is confused by it. I dive into: · What the trauma cy...
206: Daddy issues, preserving your feminine energy and empowering sex
14 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is an interview I did on The Kelli Show and it is full of value and chicken nuggets all about healing your trauma, preserving your femini...
205: The shit side of business
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, I talk about the shit side of business and how sometimes I hate being a business owner, I hate being a boss and things feel real...
204: Labels limit you and inhibit your sense of freedom
31 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today I am talking about labels and how they can be really fucking damaging, inhibit your growth and hold you back from your goals and desires. I chat...
203: Your addiction to victimhood is what could be holding you back from getting your manifestations
17 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today we're talking about victimhood and how people are actually addicted to being a victim. This episode is going to trigger some of you, but I want ...
202: The 2022 Queen Alchemy Update
12 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I'm here with the down low on the new format of Queen Alchemy and what to expect in this round! So if you want to join and you have questions, chances...
201: How trauma shows up in your sex life - for both men and women
12 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I discuss why trauma can affect your sex life. Your mind and body hold trauma which causes overthinking, stiffness in the body, and i...
200: 2022 is YOUR YEAR
06 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discussed what the new year is really about. We no longer have time for negativity or fake friends. Let’s make this year our b*t...
199: Energetic blueprints | Love, wealth & career
04 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is a game changer in understanding this world of blueprints and energetics. If you want a deeper insight into anything I mention, Magic, ...
198: How sisterhood wounding can inhibit your growth
29 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sisterhood wounding is a wound women have around their friendships with other women. It's the backstabbing, bitchness, sly comments, nastiness, bullyi...
197: How masculine men actually make society safer, and feminine-men make it unsafe
15 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode is all about how as a woman you need to understand that if you want to feel safe, you need to feel safe around men. This is also a goo...
196: How to heal your stress of not being "enough of a man"
06 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is going to be a good episode for my male listeners and also my female listeners, so that you can have more compassion towards men (cc: Be A Love...
195: I stopped drinking alcohol for three months, and this is what happened
01 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I haven't been drinking for about three months now. I didn't start for any particular reason and I didn't intend on keeping it up for a particular len...
194: Where are all the good men? B!tch, they're around me! (Quit emasculating)
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a juicy episode I recorded with Lee Noto. We chat about: ☽ The breakdown of what masculine armour and emasculation is, and the impact of bot...
193: How understanding the opposite sex will help you get further in your career
16 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is something I haven't actually properly touched on in any of my episodes before. This episode is all about how understanding the opposite sex wi...
192: Breakdown of the Netflix show YOU (part 2) | Blackout rage is a real thing
08 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to part two of the YOU series (...so if you haven’t listened to part one obviously make sure you do first!) In this episode I cover: ☽ Bla...
191: Breakdown of the Netflix show YOU (part 1) | What's fucked up about this show
01 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You guys all loved my SexLife series and asked for more podcasts in this style! So you asked and I've delivered ;) This time I'm going to be chatting ...
190: How emasculation hurts both men and women
25 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this juicy ep I cover: ☽ Examples of emasculation ☽ How men can also emasculate the masculine part of a women ☽ Emasculation in the workplac...
189: The story of how I developed my intuition
22 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is the story of how I developed my intuition. In this ep, I chat about: ☽ Past life regression ☽ The memory of when I think my intuitio...
188: 8 ways your inner child wounds play out in your relationship
12 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm talking about predominately romantic relationships. I dive into the following 8 ways your inner child wounds play out in your relationship: ...
187: The energetics of expansion
06 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In a nutshell, if you're not taking scary leaps, don't expect to expand. In this episode I also cover: ☽ What is expansion and how does it fee...
186: How to get through a breakup 101
04 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Monica is riffing on all things breakups and giving you some important words of wisdom to get through a rough patch. Whether you're g...
185: Your manifestation FAQ’s
23 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I'm answering all your manifestation FAQ’s, including: ☽ Manifesting things overnight vs. manifestations taking forever ☽ I address a B...
184: The laws of the universe
20 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is an educational episode on the different laws of the universe. It’s important that you’re embodying and understanding all of these laws. ...
183: Cacao & Convos with Rachel Hunt | Micro-manifestations, miracles and energy of neutrality
16 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode I recorded with Rachel Hunt for her podcast and I had to re-share because it’s so full of chicken nuggets! We jam on: ☽ My tips on ...
182: Manifesting, the law of action and when your words become your spells
13 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a short chicken nugget episode. Today I’m talking about fear, vibes and manifestation: ☽ How to get rid of scarcity ☽ The answer to ‘...
181: Real Talk & Collective Energy
07 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Real talk. A lot of us are experiencing the collective anxiety and it’s incredibly heightened at the moment. If you're feeling this too, you're not ...
180: Cacao & Convos: Human Design with Livy Iasonos | How my gifts are written in the stars
31 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I’m so excited to welcome Livy Iasonos onto the podcast today! Livy is a Human Design Business Mentor helping healers, coaches and space holders unl...
179: Sex Life (Part 4) | Silent treatment, being honest with your desires, and shame vs. empowerment
16 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the last part of the Sex Life series. If you haven't listened to part 1, 2 & 3 do this first! Part 4 is all about episodes 7 & 8. ☽ Why ...
178: Sex Life (Part 3) | Communicating your desires & hot sex vs. safety (you can have it all)
10 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to part 3 of the Sex Life series. If you haven't listened to part 1 & 2, do this first! Part 3 is all about episodes 5 & 6. ☽ Communication...
177: Sex Life (Part 2) | Clitoral stimulation, the shower scene (IYKYK) & addiction vs feeling safe
05 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
177: Sex Life (Part 2) | Clit stimulation, the shower scene (IYKYK) & addiction vs feeling safe This is part 2 of my Sex Life series. So, if you ha...
176: Sex Life (Part 1) | Desire & sub/dom f*cking, addiction & manipulation, mother/lover archetypes
03 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a mini podcast series all about SEX LIFE. Not my sex life, lol, but the Netflix show that everyone seems to be obsessed with. As you may of s...
175: The secret to success | Embracing seasons in business and stepping out of comfort zones
21 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I cut episode 174 slightly short and I still have a LOT of juicy stuff I want to say related to business and fear, so I thought I'd record part 2. Al...
174: The highs and lows of the last 4 years in growing my company, taking scary leaps, the hard times, what I wish I knew and more
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If you are a woman in business or in pursuit of starting a business, LISTEN UP! This episode is dedicated towards you. This super JUICY business-rela...
173: The fundamentals of feminine energy | Receivership, pleasure & being magnetic AF in life & biz
16 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is full of some fucking vibes with my friend Georgie Stevenson. I'm currently in Sedona, but this episode was actually recorded when I wa...
172: Growing a business isn't just meditation & masturbation, you have to work hard too. | Breaking down the IG illusions, real talk and the personality traits you need for success
05 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s podcast, I am sharing with you guys some fucking TRUTH BOMBS of how growing my business wasn’t just about feminine energy. I started t...
171: How creating a 5 year plan could actually be limiting yourself and your business with Gabby Flegg
04 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to part 5 of 5, of this mini podcast series. Today I am joined by Gabby, a photographer and past BABA client. Gabby is a professional photo...
170: Why passion in business is everything with Jenna Doherty | Feminine pleasure and manifestations
03 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to part 4 of 5 of the mini series. I am thrilled to welcome Jenna onto the podcast today! Jenna is a past BABA client, an experienced beauty...
169: The secret to finding balance when owning a business with your partner, with Mackalyn Rykers
02 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to episode 3 of our 5 part mini podcast series. Today we are joined by Mackalyn, who was in my most recent round of BABA. Mackalyn is a holis...
168: Be the queen of your own life with Marina Shiferman | Real estate and empowering women
01 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to part 2 of 5, of this mini podcast series. Today I am joined by Marina, a realtor and past BABA client. Marina and her team of amazing w...
167: How I went from $200 a month to $60,000 a month with Olivia Marie
30 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is episode 1 of a 5 part of a special segment coming to you guys. I am opening up BABA and so I’m bringing a few of my past BABA clients onto t...
166: Honouring your feminine energy as a business owner
28 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a juicy chat I had with my friend Christina on her podcast Her Life By Design. We chat about: - Why having your period is so important - How...
165: Being a social butterfly, energy leaking and how to come back to yourself
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a short and sweet, chicken nugget episode. In this episode I chat about: - A realisation I’ve had since living in NY - Energy leaking - D...
164: Understanding the difference between how men and women date
17 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I’ve been really noticing this lately, as we're all starting to date again coming out of Covid. Dating is fun and I'm enjoying this little bit of ti...
163: Has the feminist movement gone too far? How are we suppressing men now?
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I was interview by Georgie Stevenson on The Rise & Conquer Podcast. Female empowerment has been such an incredible & important movement, but I believe...
162: Let’s talk “vacations” | Shedding, alarming effects on women’s health and shocking statistics
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today we are talking about the ‘vacation’, our periods, and reproductive health. Firstly I’d like to preface, this is not just my interpretatio...
161: Cacao & Convos with Christie Melhorn: How my trauma made me think I wanted to be a man
31 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Christie shares her story, her relationship with the feminine and masculine and why her trauma made her think she wanted to be a man....
160: Do you need to be overly concerned about abnormal pap smears?
19 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is all about abnormal pap smears. I was inspired to record this episode after one of my clients was told there was nothing she could do t...
159: The reasons behind your skin issues for men and women (energetic reasons included)
17 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is all about how stress, energetic and your physical body can impact your skin health. Unless your exceptionally lucky, bad skin is some...
158: Cacao & Convos with Georgie Stevenson | Her Journey with Breast Implant Illness Disease
13 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today we welcome the beautiful Georgie Stevenson onto the podcast. Get ready, because this is a seriously enlightening conversation that EVERY woman n...
157: Hitting rock bottom, conscious choices and honouring your fear
10 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we wait to hit rock fucking bottom? This goes for men and women. In this episode I cover: - Truth bomb: you always have a choice. - Why it...