Mari & Evan: He Didn’t Text Back After the Perfect First Date… Here’s Why
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Mari is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Evan. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But before we do that, Mari, tell us about your date with Evan. How long has it been since you talked to him?
It's been four days. Our date was really amazing.
Four days and you're saying you're getting ghosted already?
Yeah, are you sure?
I feel like if you don't follow up the day after a date, they're never going to text you.
Oh. I mean, usually a good date, you do get the follow up, but.
Yeah. But I will say, like, what if he's just busy or like things just got a little crazy?
don't know i think four days is a little bit too long to leave someone hanging i i did follow up with him after so to not get a response okay yeah all right so tell us about the date it was amazing like honestly too good to be true for a first date maybe we went to this cozy little candlelit restaurant it was so cute one of those cozy booths where you there's no way to not touch so our knees are touching we're drinking wine we're sharing apps oh i think we both i know it felt so romantic it's calm which i think is odd for a first date you don't always feel so steady you feel nervous but there was just this like calmness about the whole night no like worry about eye contact and we just felt so connected it felt safe honestly and yeah we're sharing food and I think we both kind of acknowledge that this could be something um
We kissed at the end of the night and it was just sweet. It wasn't rushed or forced. No awkward, like, will they, won't they? It just, it all sounds so great.
What could the problem be then? I mean, that does sound great. And especially if you guys are feeling safe and comfortable, that is not easy to come by. So what could have happened?
The only thing that I can think of, and I think that's a would be a silly reason not to text me back, but he said that he was going to be snowboarding the next day, so he needed to leave at 11. That's dope. We were having so much fun, and at 11, I don't know, I was just feeling kind of silly. So I kind of put my hands on my hips and I was like, if you go home right now, you're never going to see me again. And...
What happens when a first date feels perfect but ends in silence?
It works. Like he stayed for like a bit longer. He ended up leaving at midnight. So I'm like, not too late. But he kissed me goodbye and he said that he would call. And the next day, I texted him, and I was just like, I can't wait to hear about all the adventure. Like, have fun snowboarding. And that was four days ago, and I got no response.
Okay. Maybe he's, like, on a boys' trip.
What details did Mari share about her date with Evan?
Like, a boys' trip snowboarding adventure. But did he tell you he was going on a boys' trip, or was it just, like, a day?
Well, I assumed it was for the weekend. He has a full-time job.
So that's two out of the four days.
Okay.
All right.
Okay. Mari is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Evan. So we're about to call him and see if I tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But before we do that, Mari, why don't you break down your date with Evan again for us real quick?
So I went on the first date with Evan. It was really calm, quiet, romantic, intimate, so sweet. We kissed. I asked him to stay out past his bedtime.
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Chapters
5 chapters
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–3:35
2
What happens when a first date feels perfect but ends in silence?
3:35–4:03
3
What details did Mari share about her date with Evan?
4:03–5:16
4
What signs indicate that someone might be ghosting after a date?
5:16–9:35
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What reasons might explain why someone doesn't text back after a great date?
9:35–11:26
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