TPP 017: One Mother's Radical, Nature-Based Approach to Helping Her Daughter Live with Anxiety

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What motivated Jill and her family to try an extended wilderness hike for her daughter's anxiety?

Jill Emmelhainz 0:00
at home with medication with the therapist, she usually has two to three, maybe four significant meltdowns a week because of anxiety. When we got out there in the woods. In that six weeks she had one partial meltdown and that was all.
Debbie Reber 0:19
Welcome to the Tilt Parenting Podcast, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Reber, and today we're talking with Jill Emmel Hines, the mother of a 14-year-old daughter with anxiety, who's taken extraordinary measures to support her daughter. Last year, Jill and her daughter have gone on extended hiking expeditions on the Appalachian Trail, the longest hiking-only footpath in the world that extends all the way from Maine to Georgia in the eastern United States. Jill's story is fascinating, but perhaps what I love most about our conversation is that Jill offers a beautiful example of what it looks like when a parent commits to becoming fluent in their child's unique language and adapts their life to create experiences to help their child thrive.
Debbie Reber 1:11
This is not to say that parents should pull their kid out of school, stock up on camping supplies, and hit the trail, but I do think it's really inspiring to consider how we as parents can creatively figure out ways to meet our children where they're at in a powerful way. Thank you as always for listening to the Tilt Parenting Podcast. To learn more about Tilt, visit www.tiltparenting.com. Hey everyone, this is Debbie Reber with the Tilt Parenting Podcast. And today I'm happy to welcome to the show Jill Emmelheinz. Hi, Debbie. I've been really looking forward to speaking with you ever since I was kind of looking back at our correspondence, and I think you filled out my podcast suggestion form back when I very first launched Tilt.
Debbie Reber 1:58
And in that note to me, you wrote that you thought we should explore the topic of the significance of outdoor. time for our kids. And specifically what you wrote was, We work hard to add this to daily life for our daughter. And later this week she and I leave for our second five week backpacking trip on the Appalachian Trail, a setting where her debilitating anxiety drops to almost zero. So that message totally piqued my interest. And I know there are lots of listeners raising children who struggle with anxiety. So I definitely wanted to get you on the show. So here you are and thank you so much for doing this.
Jill Emmelhainz 2:33
Oh, I'm glad to talk.
Debbie Reber 2:35
I'd love if you could just kind of share your story with us. Maybe tell us a little bit about your family and your daughter. I I was doing a little you know, I always do my online research. I know you have several children, but it's your youngest daughter who is fourteen. Um, that is the one you did the Appalachian Trail with. Is that correct?

How did Anna’s anxiety symptoms change during the first six‑week Appalachian Trail trek?

Jill Emmelhainz 2:53
Yep, that's correct. Yeah, as you said, we've got a big family. We've got seven kids and at this point Anna is the only one still left at home. The rest are grown and on their own. And Anna has had mental health issues that she struggled with first diagnosed when she was five. And it's a whole alphabet soup of different diagnoses, but the most significant issue we struggle with is her overwhelming anxiety that causes her at times to shut down. Other times she melts down with, you know, screaming or crying or rages. Uh, when she's just overwhelmed with all of the sensory chaos that's around her. We've discovered that from when she was very young that when she can be outdoors. that seems to help calm her down.
Jill Emmelhainz 3:38
There's there's less anxiety when she's not around man made chaos. So that's very often, you know, for her younger years, that just meant she spent a lot of time outdoors in the backyard playing. We tried to spend a lot of time going to playgrounds. But even there, there's a lot of other kids running around, a lot more chaos. And so we figured out, well, let's try Parks, city parks. And so we would go to the park and she could wander the paths, you know, the the paved paths in the in the trees and in the woods.

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