TPP 108: Dr. Laura Anderson on Gender Noncomformity and Differently Wired Kids
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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What is gender identity and how is it defined?
One of the key takeaways that I taught to folks about with this work is that the really good news for parents is that if this is something your child is insistent, consistent, and persistent about, they're really clear and persistent about the fact that they have a need to behave in gender expansive ways or that they are not the gender that that they were or you believe they were based on their sex assigned at birth. That parents are enormous protective factors. Without parent support, and if parents are trying to change these key pieces of their kids' identity, again, out of out of understandable fear, if parents try to change it, then these kids really, really struggle.
Welcome to Tilt Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Reber, and I'm really excited to bring this episode to you as we are going to be diving into a topic I've been looking to cover for some time now, and that is gender nonconformity in children. My guest is Dr. Laura Anderson, a clinical child and family psychologist who's worked with children, adolescents, adults, and families for more than 20 years. Among her special areas of focus is support for gender-expansive youth and their families, autism, parenting neurodiverse children and teens, and improving family communication.
The topic of gender nonconformity in children is a personal one for Laura as she's raising a son who's both neurodiverse and what she describes as gender expansive. I've received a lot of requests from listeners to do an episode on this topic, so I'm really excited to be able to bring this to you. We cover a lot of ground in our conversation as Laura explains what gender nonconformity is, how gender identity is formed, what the latest research says about a connection between autism and gender expansiveness, what children who are gender nonconforming and the parents raising them need in terms of support, and much more. I hope you enjoyed this conversation. Hello Laura, welcome to the show. Hi Debbie,
thanks for having me.
Yeah, I feel like this is a conversation that I've been wanting to have for a long time. And I've been hearing from more and more listeners that they have questions about this. And then serendipity brought you and I together in the Netherlands. Um, you're in California right now and that's where you live currently, but we got to meet at a conference and I just was so excited to be able to connect with you and probably even before I talked to you for a minute was like, Will you come on my podcast? So anyway, thank you. Thank you so much for being here. Here.
Yeah, it's an honor. I'm really excited actually to talk about the stuff. It's close to my my heart and my head. Excellent.
So let's um, you know, before we get into the meat of the conversation, I would love if you could just take a few minutes to tell us about who you are, your work, your family, and really connected with your personal why and and the work that you do in the world.
Sure. So I am see, honestly, as far back as high school, I knew I wanted to be a psychologist who works with families. And I am a child and family psychologist. Almost twenty years now I've been licensed and I'm in licensed in two different states here in the US. And I um but I've lived out of the country on several occasions. And so this period of this intersection of psychology and living abroad is one that really resonates with me. Um, I love kids and families in any setting. I've worked in schools for almost all of those 20 years with actually offices right on school campuses, but I've also done work in a range of other private practice and contract. foster care and all all kinds of different things.
So I've seen kids in families in almost every place you can find them and I really love parenting support and just helping families thrive. And so That y so that's one thread. And the other thread is that I'm the parent. I'm a transracially adoptive parent.
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