TPP 128: Digital Media and Technology Expert Devorah Heitner on Helping Kids Be Screenwise
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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Who is Dr. Devorah Heitner and what is the premise of her book *Screenwise*?
It's really great for our kids to see us in the world and to know that we make mistakes too and oh I I responded too hastily to that email and now I have a lot of cleanup to do in that relationship or that work situation and I I wish I'd taken the time to think it through or even talk in person instead. So I think Letting them know that we've been there and also letting them know that it is genuinely challenging, that we recognize I mean, that's one of the th great things about coaching is we're not saying, Oh, this is so easy, why don't you get it? We're saying, Yeah, this is really challenging and you know, baby steps.
Welcome to Tilt Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Rieber, and today's episode is a must-listen to if your child uses technology and screens of any sort. So yeah, pretty much everyone. My guest this week is Deborah Heitner, an expert on young people's relationship with digital media and technology. Deborah is the author of Screenwise, Helping Kids Thrive and Survive in Their Digital World, and founder of Raising Digital Natives. And her mission is to cultivate a culture of empathy and social emotional literacy. Devorah's work has appeared in the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Wall Street Journal, Time magazine, and Education Week.
And she also did a fascinating TEDx talk a few years back called The Challenges of Raising a Digital Native, which I highly recommend you check out. I will link to that TEDx talk in the show notes. Today, Deborah and I talk about kids' relationship with screens, everything from the specific challenges related to screens and technology for differently wired kids to how we as parents can start being effective mentors for our child when it comes to helping. them develop healthy screen habits. I ask D'Avor the big questions I hear all the time from parents, like, how much time is too much time on screens? Does the type of activity our kids do on screen make a difference when it comes to setting limits?
And much more. I hope you get a lot out of this interview. And by the way, in each episode, at some point I refer to something called the show notes. And I realize that not everybody knows what I mean when I say this. So essentially, for every episode of the podcast, I create a post on the Tilt Parenting website for that episode. And on that page you can listen to the episode itself. You can read a short description of the episode and read a brief biography of that week's guest. And I also include a bulleted list of the key takeaways for each episode. And then I list out all the resources that came up during the conversation. You know, sometimes our guests share their favorite books or websites or other thought leaders on this subject.
So I capture all of those. So if listeners want to dig deeper and explore those resources, they don't have to go tracking them down. If they can just link directly from that page. So if you ever want to access the show notes for a particular episode, there's two ways to do it. This. One is to go to tiltparenting.com/slash podcast, and on that page you'll see a listing of every episode I've done today, all 127 of them, and then you just click on the episode you're interested in and it will take you to the show notes page. The other way is to listen to my outro at the conclusion of the interview each week. I will tell you what episode number it is and give you the direction. direct URL. So for instance, this week is episode 127.
So the direct link is tildeparenting.com slash session 127. So you get the point. Anyway, I just wanted to do a quick PSA on this because I wanted to make sure you were aware of this extra content that you can find online for every episode. And before I get to the conversation, if you get value out of this podcast, please consider supporting it by making a small monthly contribution to help me cover the costs of production. There's an easy way to do this through an online platform called Patreon.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Who is Dr. Devorah Heitner and what is the premise of her book *Screenwise*?
0:00–7:08
2
What motivated Devorah to study children’s media ecology and become a digital‑native mentor?
7:08–13:03
3
What are the biggest challenges parents face when raising differently‑wired kids in a screen‑filled world?
13:03–18:20
4
How should parents think about screen‑time limits versus the type of digital activity?
18:20–24:25
5
Why is self‑regulation more important than strict tech controls for kids?
24:25–30:41
6
How are schools integrating (or misusing) technology, and what does that mean for families?
30:41–35:35
7
What practical mentorship strategies can parents use to guide their kids’ screen habits?
35:35–40:34
8
Where can listeners find more resources, tools, and community support for screen‑wise parenting?
40:34–46:04
Speakers
2 identifiedMore from Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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