TPP 142: Kayce Hughlett Talks About Her Differently Wired Son's Drug Use
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
43 min
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8 chapters
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What early signs indicated Jonathan’s need for real connection?
he was looking for real connection. And it looks weird that you think it's real connection while he was disconnecting with drugs and alcohol. But what he was really looking for was real connection, I think. And we were giving him this parental mumbo jumbo that he couldn't connect with.
Welcome to Tilt Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. My name is Debbie Reber, and today's episode is a powerful, heartfelt conversation that I am honored to share with you. I'm talking with my friend Casey Stevens Hewlett, a psychotherapist, life coach, spiritual director and speaker, and the author of three books, As I Lay Pondering, Daily Invitations to Live a Transformed Life, her novel Blue, and her journey memoir, Soul Stroller, Experiencing the Weight, Whispers, and Wings of the World. Casey and I have been friends for many years, and she was a compassionate listener and empathetic friend as I was going through some of my most challenging years with Asher.
Casey was a few years ahead in her journey with their own differently wired son, who was in his early 20s when we first met. I wanted to bring Casey onto the show to talk about what she and her family went through when her son, as a young teenager with an ADHD diagnosis, got involved with drugs. I know that this is something many parents with atypical kids fear may happen with their kids, and some listeners may be dealing with this very situation even now as they're listening to this. And so to hear Casey tell her story and share intimately about how she not only got through it, but how her family emerged on the other side, more engaged and connected than any generations before them is incredibly powerful.
And I hope to all of you listening, inspiring. And a little public service announcement before I get to our conversation. to make a regular contribution. If you enjoy these conversations and they're beneficial to you and your family, please consider supporting this show at the $20, $10, or even $5 a month level. That money goes directly toward covering the production costs for the show and also just the costs associated with running Tilt Parenting. Thank you so much for considering. And if you want to learn more or sign up, just go to patreon.com slash tiltparenting. Thanks again. That's the end of the PSA portion of this episode. And now here is my conversation with Casey. Hey, Casey, welcome to the podcast.
Hey,
Debbie, so good to be here. So good to be here.
I feel like this is a conversation a long time in the making because you and I have talked about what we're going to talk about today many, many years ago before Tilt was even in my mind and when I was kind of in the throes of it with Asher when he was a little guy. So I'm looking forward to bringing your perspective onto the show.
Thank you. Me too. I remember. I remember. He was nine when we met. Yeah. Or even younger, I think. Even younger, maybe. Yeah.
So I guess as a way to get into our conversation, because this is going to be more of a parent chat and really, I just am happy to share your personal journey with our audience because you're You've been through this. Your Definitely Wired Son is grown and launched, and it's just so helpful to hear your journey. So tell us a little bit about who you are as a woman, as a mom, and then we'll use that to lead into telling us your story. Okay. Gosh, such a big question,
right?
Sorry. Go for it.
so you know when I describe myself to people it's I say I went from accountant to author and good girl to risk taker and from Oklahoma to Seattle and now I'm this person who explores the world and I am I have a background. I have a master's in counseling psychology, so I practiced for several years as a psychotherapist. You and I met when we were in coaching training, so I'm a certified life coach. But really, how I got to all those things was by being a mom, and especially by being a mom of this young man who is now almost 30 years old, who broke open...
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What early signs indicated Jonathan’s need for real connection?
0:00–6:40
2
How did the family respond when Jonathan received his ADHD diagnosis?
6:40–12:48
3
What led Jonathan to start using drugs and alcohol at age 13?
12:48–17:39
4
Why did the parents choose homeschooling and what challenges arose?
17:39–22:19
5
How did fear versus love influence the decision to send him to a therapeutic boarding school?
22:19–27:17
6
What was the turning point when honesty changed the parent‑child relationship?
27:17–32:57
7
What practical advice does Casey give parents facing similar addiction fears?
32:57–37:58
8
How has Jonathan’s journey ultimately enriched the family’s life?
37:58–43:28
Speakers
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