TPP 238: Dr. Rebecca Branstetter on Supporting Differently Wired Kids in the Pandemic Holiday Season
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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What is the main focus of the conversation with Dr. Rebecca Branstetter?
The mantra I've been saying is connection is protection. And it really is. And we've found that over and over in the research and in my own family is that when we're stressed, and even though we're together, you can be with someone and not connected.
Welcome to Tilt Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Reber. This week, I have a timely and jam-packed conversation all about supporting our differently wired kids during this unusual holiday pandemic season. I know that so many parents, barely holding themselves and their kids together, are now staring down an upcoming holiday season that's going to look and feel very different and are wondering how they're going to make it through. My guest, Dr. Rebecca Branstetter, is here to help us flip the switch and instead think of this year as a gift in a not-so-great package, as she puts it.
Rebecca is a school psychologist, speaker, author, and most importantly, a fellow parent waiting through this pandemic best she can. She's also the founder of the Thriving School Psychologist Collective and the author of several books, including The Thriving School Psychologist and The Everything Parents Guide to Children with Executive Functioning Disorder. Let me just say, Rebecca came well prepared for this topic, as in, you might want to take notes. You will hear practical, helpful, and creative strategies for helping our differently wired kids deal with uncertainty, canceled traditions, unstructured time, unrealized expectations, and managing your own stress and anxiety as a parent. What I love about this conversation is the encouragement to think of the challenges of this year as an opportunity for something different.
Something it may turn out is just what your family needs. I feel much more fortified for the upcoming holidays after talking with Rebecca. I hope this episode has the same impact on you too. All right, and now here is my conversation on surviving the pandemic holiday with Rebecca Branstetter. Hello, Rebecca. Welcome to the podcast. Thank you for having me. We are talking about pandemic holidays, which are nearly upon us, and the struggle is real. So I'm excited to hear everything you have to share with us today. But before we get to that, can you give us a little bit more of an introduction to yourself and the work that you do in the world?
Yeah, so my fancy credentials are that I've been a school psychologist for 20 years and And in that role, I've really enjoyed helping families understand how their kids learn, what's getting in the way, and what do we do about it. And then, of course, as a school psychologist, I see all kinds of challenges in the schools. And really, there has been nothing like 2020. in terms of the layers of challenges that we have had. But what is really important is that not only am I a school psychologist, but I'm also a mom of two. And I always joke that I was a perfect parent before I was a parent.
How does Rebecca’s background as a school psychologist and parent shape her advice?
I had all this knowledge. I went to UC Berkeley and I had my PhD and all those years of experience, but I became a mom. And something that I think gives me some street cred is that I am pandemic parenting with all of you as well. I have a sixth child. And a nine-year-old who have been on distance learning since the very beginning and never gotten off. So, you know, it's one of those things where my personal and professional kind of roll together into one in that I am just along with you, like kind of building the plane as you're flying it. when it comes to pandemic parenting. But I have been able to connect with school psychologists across the country about best practices that are basically emerging as we go, because I'm also the founder of the Thriving School Psychologists Collective.
which is an online professional learning community for school psychologists. So we meet all the time and think about how can we support parents during these crazy times. And now as we are rolling into the holidays, a lot of folks are having sort of COVID fatigue, if you will.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the main focus of the conversation with Dr. Rebecca Branstetter?
0:00–3:34
2
How does Rebecca’s background as a school psychologist and parent shape her advice?
3:34–9:20
3
What are the biggest holiday‑season challenges for differently‑wired kids during the pandemic?
9:20–14:52
4
How can parents help children process disappointment before trying to solve problems?
14:52–19:02
5
What is the “future sketch” activity and how does it teach planning and flexibility?
19:02–24:14
6
How can a gratitude jar and positive rumination boost resilience for kids and parents?
24:14–30:11
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What practical self‑care and self‑compassion strategies does Rebecca recommend for stressed parents?
30:11–34:58
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Where can listeners find Rebecca’s free self‑care toolkit and additional resources?
34:58–40:19
Speakers
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