TPP 306: Laura Vanderkam Shares How We Can Find Tranquility by Tuesday
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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What is Laura Vanderkam’s definition of tranquility and why does it matter?
I think when people hear self care, they're like, Well, I'm gonna take a bubble bath. But the problem with the bubble bath is you can do it whenever. And your bathtub isn't going anywhere. And so your taking that bath winds up being contingent on life not being busy or somebody else not wanting you to do something else, which means that it just doesn't happen. But if you are in a choir where your attendance is expected, right, then you go. Like you go even if life is busy and you go even if you're a little bit tired and you go even if your kid is whining for you to drive them to the mall. Like you will go. And they'll get to the mall some other time and you're gonna be feeling more energetic by doing this thing.
So that's that's the upside of making a commitment, even if you do have a very busy life.
Welcome to Tilled Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Rieber. My guest today is author, productivity guru, and mom of five, Laura Vanderkamp. Laura is the author of several time management and productivity books, including the one we're talking about today, Tranquility by Tuesday: Nine Ways to Calm the Chaos and Make Time for What Matters. Laura is also the host of the Before Breakfast Podcast and the co-host with Sarah Hart Unger of the Best of Both Worlds podcast. So, true confession, I have long been a fan of Laura's books, and so I was really excited to talk with her about Tranquility by Tuesday.
And since reading it, I've started incorporating a few of her strategies into my world as I try to be more mindful and aware of how I spend my time. And honestly, the results have been pretty great. So that's why I wanted to share Laura's work with you because I know that. So many of you, like me, are dealing with overwhelm and burnout, and my hope is that you'll take away one or two nuggets that you can play with in your daily life to move the needle closer to tranquility. Because these days every little bit helps. During this conversation, Laura defines tranquility for us, the common myths that get in the way of finding more peace in our lives, and talks us through some of her nine ideas for creating more tranquility and joy in our lives, including things like the power of planning on Fridays, Why Three Times a Week is a Habit, creating backup slots for priorities, planning family inventory.
And more. So I hope that you experience what I did in learning about Laura's strategies for creating more tranquility. Again, even little tweaks can make a big difference. And when you're raising a differently wired child, bringing more tranquility into our lives can truly benefit our whole family dynamic. Thanks so much, and now here is my conversation with Laura. Hey Laura, welcome to the podcast.
Thank you so much for having me. Excited to be here.
Yeah, I am looking forward to this conversation. I read your book as I was telling you before I hit record on the beach and so I was really in a great space to absorb all of and already feeling quite tranquil, frankly. So it was it was a really good match for learning more about what you're gonna be sharing with us today. But before we get into that, I always ask my guests to introduce themselves in their own words and connect that back to their personal why.
Yeah, so I'm Laura. I write books on time management and productivity. This new one, Tranquility by Tuesday, but I've also written several others such as A hundred sixty-eight hours and I know how she does it. I'm also raising five kids, so experiencing the fun of parenting children who are all very different from each other, which is, you know, fun to figure out as they get bigger and see where their personalities develop. Just a constant like a detective case, you know, how do I work with this particular one and how do I work with this one? And I'm not sure I've entirely figured that out. But keep working at it. And of course, you know, having this professional work that I enjoy doing because I love talking about issues of time and how I spend it.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is Laura Vanderkam’s definition of tranquility and why does it matter?
0:00–6:13
2
How did the idea for *Tranquility by Tuesday* originate during the pandemic?
6:13–11:38
3
What are the nine time‑management rules and how were they tested?
11:38–16:14
4
Why is planning on Fridays a game‑changing habit for busy families?
16:14–20:21
5
How does the “three times a week” habit help parents create sustainable routines?
20:21–25:20
6
Why are big and little family adventures essential for building memory and joy?
25:20–30:01
7
What does “effortful before effortless” mean and how can it improve leisure time?
30:01–35:07
8
What final advice does Laura give to prevent burnout and make Tuesdays more tranquil?
35:07–40:11
Speakers
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