TPP 325: Akilah Richards on Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work
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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children
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What does “raising free people” mean and why is it seen as threatening?
Freedom is individual, liberation is collective. And I think that s a lot of the things that we do at home, in our own bodies, in our own houses. When I say individual, I mean not just the person, but also like your home circle. There are a lot of things we do there that support and amplify and evolve collective liberation. And for me, unschooling is one way that we do that because if I continued on the path of Operating as if freedom was something that my children earned, that is a dismissal of a civil right that they have for sovereignty.
Welcome to Tilt Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids. I'm your host, Debbie Rieber. And am I allowed to say this is one of my favorite conversations of the season? I mean, I love them all, but I really enjoyed exploring unschooling, deschooling, freedom, and liberation with Akila Richards, host of the Fair of The Free Child Podcast and author of the book Raising Free People: Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work. I reached out to Akela after seeing her TED talk, which led me to her book, and then her podcast, and I just knew I wanted to invite her to join me in conversation. A recurring theme in this podcast and in Tilt is doing our own inner work as parents, and I love how Akela talks about relating our own reparenting to freedom, decolonization, and liberation.
So in this episode, Akala shares her personal story of going from traditional schooling to unschooling to deschooling, and how she and her husband came to consider the idea of raising free people. We'll also just talk about what that means and how they've navigated the realities of making unconventional choices that can sometimes make other people uncomfortable. Akilah also shares how she thinks about success and what a fulfilled life looks like for her family, as well as how her work aimed at decolonizing parenting has resonated with people worldwide. A little more about Akala before we begin. Akala Richards uses audio and written mediums to amplify the ways that unschooling in particular is serving as healing grounds and liberation work for black, non-black, indigenous, and people of color communities earthwide.
Her celebrated unschooling podcast, Affair of the Free Child, and the numerous workshops and gatherings she's been a part of have garnered the attention of of Forbes magazine, The New York Times, Good Morning America, and most importantly, BIPOC families interested or living in more healthy, consent-based intergenerational relationships. I absolutely love chatting with people who are deep philosophical thinkers on a mission, and that's definitely how I would describe Akila. I hope you enjoy this thoughtful conversation. And now here is my conversation with Aquila. Hi, Akila, welcome to the podcast. Thank
you, Debbie. Glad to be here.
I'm looking forward to this conversation. I was really drawn to your work after seeing your TED X talk and then reading your book, which is called Raising Free People, Unschooling as Liberation and Healing Work. Such a great title. And I really was excited to just share a bit of your work and your story with my audience. Your book is really your story, but just give us a little bit about your own journey as to how you went down this path of exploring unschooling and de schooling and just forging a different path for your own family.
Yeah, so my children, my daughters who are now eighteen and sixteen, Marley and Sage, they are my life guides. You know, I say it all the time. They really have been such amazing guidance counselors of my life. And it started with them. When Marley started elementary school, she was really excited about it. You know, she went With a lot of enthusiasm and excitement. We didn't have any of the like separation anxiety things. She was like, bye guys, you know, when we dropped her off, and it was kind of great. But what we began to notice, my partner Chris and I, we began to notice over time that Marley was changing.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What does “raising free people” mean and why is it seen as threatening?
0:00–5:22
2
How did Akilah’s children’s experience in traditional school lead to unschooling?
5:22–9:37
3
What is the difference between unschooling, deschooling, and homeschooling?
9:37–14:14
4
How do parents use “mad question‑asking” to get unstuck in their parenting journey?
14:14–19:12
5
What is “confident autonomy” and how does it define success for Akilah’s family?
19:12–23:35
6
How does unschooling connect to decolonization and collective liberation?
23:35–28:34
7
What is the “Savor Complex” and how can families integrate it into daily life?
28:34–33:25
8
Where can listeners find Akilah’s podcast, book, coaching, and other resources?
33:25–36:51
Speakers
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