Did I Cut Him Off Too Early | Advice with the Queens

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What is the main premise of this “Advice with the Queens” episode?

Lucy Jackson 0:02
Алісна продакшн. This is Happy Hour
Nikki Westcott 0:10
with Lucy and Nikki. And if you're easily offended, then this might not be for you.
Lucy Jackson 0:17
Anyway, don't care you're not beat, but just as a little sign-off, you should know it's fucking weird as fuck to grovel for someone and then never go back to them. You fuck with
Nikki Westcott 0:28
fucking oath. And then what she does is they reply and then what she does is she just deletes it so she never has to ever see them and deletes their numbers. So that's what I do
Lucy Jackson 0:37
guys when I'm done with someone, close door, don't want to read your message. Don't care.
Nikki Westcott 0:43
Cheers, babe, talking a happy hour with Lucy and Nikki, the real life shit. You're going to discuss over a drink. But before we start, a little disclaimer.
Lucy Jackson 0:49
So today we are here with
Nikki Westcott 0:51
Advice with the Queen. It
Lucy Jackson 0:54
is. And it's a good epo
Nikki Westcott 0:55
epozone. Epozone. Let's go epozone.
Lucy Jackson 0:59
Okay. Let's do some actual advice with the Queens because wow, our last time we attempted doing this, we just ended up ranting about the abomination that is men. In our life. Hopefully we s hear some positive stories in this one.
Nikki Westcott 1:12
Advice usually is the opposite, but
Lucy Jackson 1:14
anyway.
Nikki Westcott 1:15
I'm I'm it's not looking good.
Lucy Jackson 1:17
Producer Grace is like, oh no girls, buckle in.
Nikki Westcott 1:20
If I thought that there was some shit cunts out there now, you definitely will after this.
Lucy Jackson 1:26
And dare I say this uh title has gotten me hooped. What is it? A conniving cunt and a lazy like. A lazy like. That's another thing about my life that I hate. I hate when boys like my stories. hate it. It's quite like
Nikki Westcott 1:40
what do you do with it though?
Lucy Jackson 1:41
You can't do anything like that. What do you see when they like it? You look in your story bees and it has a little love heart next.
Nikki Westcott 1:47
Oh, when you're scrolling down. Yeah, okay.
Lucy Jackson 1:49
Just like in your story views. Yeah. Or like it cu I think it comes up
Nikki Westcott 1:52
as a notification. Well, 'cause I know when you look at your stories it's like brrrrr all the little hearts pop up, but I'm like, How do you know who the fuck's who
Lucy Jackson 2:00
But everyone use y learn how to use the app.
Nikki Westcott 2:03
Well, I don't know. Um that's me using it, babe. I can't tell you next exactly who they are. They do they do disappear though. It's not like they're filed anywhere together.
Lucy Jackson 2:14
It doesn't get filed, no. But do you know where it does get filed? After the story expires, you can still see it in your archive. Which I thought was crazy.
Nikki Westcott 2:23
Yeah. Technology boo.
Lucy Jackson 2:25
Technology boo. I can Ivan cunt and a lazy like. Hey girls, long time listener, first-time writer, love the pod. I need your perspective on a recent situation ship. I'll try to keep this short as I can, but I also want to give you the full picture of what happened. I met a guy on hinge, let's call him James. We instantly had hit it off, which rarely happens for me as I almost never get a spark on the apps. On our first date, we both agree we wanted a long-term relationship. However, here's the catch. He lives five hours away from where I'm based and was only in town for a few weeks for a work course. I told him I don't do long distance, so we should just enjoy the time we had left if this goes well. Long story short, we start seeing each other almost every day, having sleepovers and diving into deep, vulnerable chats because I thought this was a casual fling.
Lucy Jackson 3:11
I ignored some massive red flags. Red flag numero uno. He ended his last seven year long relationship a while ago while engaged, cheating on his fiance with a co-worker. He claimed he'd gone to therapy and took full accountability, said all the right words to make me feel safe. Okay. Red flag number two. He admitted he tends to sleep around for validation whenever he gets hurt or rejected. Despite this, he was checking every box. Looking back, it was probably pure love bombing. For example, he'd noticed tiny details like my favorite clothing brand, Jagger and Stone. Bless. Remembered my birthday, parents' names, and started frantically planning a future camping trips and visits to Sydney.
Nikki Westcott 3:54
Sleeping for with people for validation after you get re like hope rejected. Like I'm assuming that means after a break up, like him and every man in the world.
Lucy Jackson 4:02
Do you know what even?

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