3 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You—and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell
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Why is it essential to date yourself before finding a partner?
So, Johnny, I want to start by asking you something we were talking about before we started recording, which is the idea of making sure that a single guy first has a good relationship with himself. before he finds the right girlfriend the right woman to have for his partner in a relationship can you elaborate on that why is it important to first be good with you before you attract a girlfriend well first of all i think it's completely unreasonable to be asking for the best of someone else if we haven't got to the best place for ourselves so what does that mean i mean if we've if we're in a bit of a hiatus right now we've come out of a long-term relationship we may have lost parts of ourselves that gave us joy, right? We dedicated our whole life to the relationship. If there's kids involved, you know, there's that too. Work, you know, has took its toll on us. We forgot about the things that give us joy. So a great hack would be to think, okay, what are those things that actually lift me up?
make me feel good, give me that euphoric moment in my life, whether it be music, sports, hanging out with friends. It could be simply just sitting down watching a film that you used to watch for nostalgia. Whatever those things are, take the time to reconnect with them. I mean, the other day, you know, I went out for a walk by myself, right? And I think there's a lot to be said on actually taking the time to take yourself out on a date. Right? There's a lot of peace that comes with that, especially if you live a busy lifestyle. So we all know the work that we need to do as well. A lot of us just kind of put it off. There was a great post-fight talk that I saw from Conor McGregor when he was, you know, having a lot of his fights.
And it was one of the fights that he lost. And, you know, you know what he's like. You know, he plays the role. He plays the character. You know, he's a cocky, arrogant guy. It sells tickets, right? And he said, his quote was, yeah, we all know what the work is we need to do. We just need to get on and do it. And he himself said, you know, I didn't put the work in and I let myself down. I let my team down. I let everyone around. I let the fans down. So... Take stock of where you are and work out what those things are to be the 2.0 version of yourself. I love that idea.
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Chapters
6 chapters
1
Why is it essential to date yourself before finding a partner?
2:02–5:44
2
What are some common mistakes men make that turn them from a 'tiger' to a 'housecat'?
5:44–6:52
3
How can self-amusement improve your interactions with women?
6:52–14:28
4
What is the 'Yawn Zone' and how can you avoid it?
14:28–20:02
5
What are some creative ways to break social patterns and stand out?
20:02–32:11
6
What’s the best way to approach a group of women with a man involved?
32:11–1:05:19
Speakers
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