Bummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)
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How can I maximize my online dating success with minimal effort?
And do it with authenticity and integrity in class. No sketchy pickup artist moves needed. No toxic nonsense. Merry Christmas and happy holidays. This episode is dropping on Christmas Eve. And there's a really good chance you're listening to this during the holiday season. And the holidays are a tough time for a lot of people. Maybe they're a tough time for you. If you're anything like I was back when I was struggling with my dating life, you get lonely at times. And it was hardest for me during the holidays. I remember, so I'm the youngest of six. I grew up in a big Irish Catholic family in Ohio. I'm the baby of six kids. I was the miracle baby. And I remember one Christmas when we were taking photos, all the six kids were taking photos.
And there was a group photo that all five of my siblings was in the photo with their partner, either their boyfriend, girlfriend, or their husband and wife. And I didn't have anybody. And I remember I picked up the family dog, fuzzy little white dog named Shamrock. And just as a half joke, I picked up Shamrock while all my siblings had their partners in this photo. And my big brother Devin cracked a joke. He said, hey, look, Connell's got his girlfriend with him. And I laughed and everybody laughed. But I was actually feeling really lonely and sad. And I remember thinking, oh man, why do I have to spend Christmas with my dog and not have somebody to be with? So anyway, if you are a guy who is feeling lonely right now, this time of year, I know how it feels.
Why is being a single dad a feature, not a flaw?
I remember how it feels. I remember having some pretty lonely, hopeless times, or at least they felt hopeless at the time. And the good news is I'm here for you. This podcast is here for you. Think of me as your wingman, your digital audio podcast wingman. I'm here to help you make sure that if you are alone this year in 2024, let's make this the last year you are alone in terms of a romantic partner. I'm sure you're not alone in life, but I'll if you're alone in terms of relationship in terms of not having a girlfriend let's make this the last lonely christmas okay i'll do everything i can to help make sure that next year you absolutely will have an incredible girlfriend to share the holidays with so if you're having a tough christmas know that this will pass.
If I could go from holding a dog as my Christmas date to having the world's greatest girlfriend and having a lot of dating success, and hell, I didn't just become a guy who could get a girlfriend. I became a dating coach. So if I can do this, anybody can, including you. Anyway, let's get to today's episode. It's another coaching session with my client, Zach. Zach's a brand new client. This is our very first official coaching call, and you're going to love it because we're going to go deep on all kinds of different online dating struggles that you probably have, especially a lack of matches and a lack of dates. We got 15 plus really good tips to help you get more matches, more dates, and have some really good dating success on the apps so you can get a great girlfriend in 2025.
What are the essential photos needed for my dating profile?
Enjoy the episode. All right, Zach, what's on your mind tonight, man? How can I help you?
All right, Mr. Connell. So I think the big thing that has been on my mind, and I've kind of been going back and forth on it a little bit and struggling with, is... I think part of it is, is what I'm looking for realistic. And I'll kind of outline that in a second. And then how do I go about trying to find that? Right.
How can I write funny prompts to get women to message me first?
So you and I have talked about this, obviously a bunch, which is, you know, I'm, uh, I separated from my wife about a year ago. Um, and you know, we will be getting divorced in the early part of this year. Thankfully, super amicable, no drama, probably one of the most divorces of all time, but you know, I'm, I'm in a situation where I'm, I want
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
How can I maximize my online dating success with minimal effort?
0:29–2:15
2
Why is being a single dad a feature, not a flaw?
2:15–3:53
3
What are the essential photos needed for my dating profile?
3:53–4:15
4
How can I write funny prompts to get women to message me first?
4:15–5:57
5
When and how should I boost my dating profile?
5:57–6:55
6
How do I effectively transition from matching to dating?
6:55–9:24
7
What common profile mistakes should I avoid?
9:24–9:43
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How can I use video clips to enhance my dating profile?
9:43–1:12:14
Speakers
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