How to Meet Your Dream Woman—and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)
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How did Jason approach an LA Lakers cheerleader?
there's like a random thursday after like a month i'm not approaching i'll go up to la lakers cheerleader and target approach her get her number and then we go on a date i'm like what the hell i did 40 approaches in one weekend did you get an la lakers phone number yeah one on a date one on a date okay
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach Conal Barrett. I am here to help you flirt with confidence, get more dates, know exactly what to say, how to talk to women, and get a great girlfriend. And do it by being authentic. No sketchy pickup nonsense needed. This is about dating with authenticity, with vulnerability, with integrity. Because guess what? Women like you for you. They really do. And today's a really special episode because I'm going to pull the curtain back on what I do as a dating coach. You're going to be able to listen in on a coaching session I did with my incredible client, Jason. Jason is a great guy. He lives in Southern California. He used to live in New York. He's now in SoCal. And he's now in LA.
And he and I have been working together for a little while. He first came to me, he was dealing with two big problems. He had really bad approach anxiety. He could not walk up to a woman and talk to her in any kind of flirtatious way. He has now done it many, many times. In the episode you're about to listen to, he talks about approaching an LA Lakers cheerleader and getting her number. Those are the moments that make me so happy to be a coach. It's like, hey, Connell, I got a date with an LA Lakers cheerleader. I'm like, oh my God, that's priceless to me. He was also struggling with how to talk to women. Like what the heck do you say on a date or what the heck do you say when you approach a woman? And here's a really quick story.
And then we'll get to the episode and you can hear me coaching Jason and There's some really good tips in here for Jason and, of course, for you about how to text women, how often to text women, how to message them, how to approach, what to say, what not to say. But I want to tell a really quick story about Jason. So I do in-person coaching in New York City and sometimes in Los Angeles. I go out for a whole weekend. I call it the wingman weekend, where we go out for a weekend and I'm literally... your coach side by side, shoulder to shoulder with you, helping you approach women and doing demonstrations for you and helping you get numbers and dates. That's what I do in person. That's my favorite kind of coaching to do. It's super personalized, super one-on-one.
And I was doing that with Jason a while back and he had this fantastic breakthrough because what Jason was struggling with at the time was, what do I say? When I walk up, I don't know what to say. And he was trying to think of the perfect thing to say. He had this really high bar for how good he thought his approach opener had to be. And so we were out together doing our wingman weekend. We're at a bar in New York City called Gem. It's a really lively place filled with tons of really attractive women and men. And I was his wingman for the night. And he saw two women standing there. next to the bar. And he said, I don't know what to say, Connell. What do I do? So I gave him one of my favorite exercises.
I said, well, what's the most honest thing you're thinking and feeling right now? And he said, oh, the most honest thing is I don't know what to say. So I said, great. There's your opening line. Approach with that. Approach with vulnerability, with genuineness. And he said, okay, he kind of laughed and smiled and that relaxed him because it just seemed so absurd. He's going to walk up and just say, I don't know what to say to you. So he walks over and he says, oh, hey, he says to two, there's two women, one blonde, one brunette. And he said, hey, what's up? I just saw you and I don't know what to say. I'm Jason. And they said, oh, hey, what's up? I'm Sarah. I'm Emily. She barely even heard him say, I don't know what to say.
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