Too Anxious to Approach? Use these 5 Steps to Boldly Meet and Date Wonderful Women (Live Coaching with Ryan)
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next thing i know she and i are dancing and making out on the dance floor this is the same girl who rejected me quote unquote 60 or so minutes earlier wow so the lesson is not that if a woman says go away the lesson is don't take it as some kind of personal rejection she just might not be in the mood at that moment to talk to you Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence and get lots of dates and approach women successfully, confidently, and get a great girlfriend. And do it with authenticity. It's all about being authentic. Authenticity is to dating as the force is to Luke Skywalker. It is strong in you, young Padawan, but you have to access it and channel it.
This is a really fun, another behind-the-scenes coaching episode. You're going to listen to an actual dating coaching one-on-one call I did with my client, Ryan. Ryan came to me with a couple problems. he has mindset confidence issues. He just feels like he felt like he's just too short, not confident enough, not charismatic enough. He's a bit introverted and he's also a little bit on the shorter side. He's like five, seven, five, eight. And so we worked on his confidence in a previous episode, about two episodes ago, you might've listened to what I call the authentic self awakening, where I, I, guided ryan on a process where i i help him see that his limiting beliefs are and he's actually the he's incredible he's so attractive so intelligent so awesome so listen to the my last coaching session with ryan about three episodes ago if you'd like to hear that tonight though is him putting it into practice all about how to how to go approach women how to talk to women what to do it's all about a night out at the bars
meeting lots of women, which is what Ryan is now doing. So tonight I give him guidance on how to do that. And if you want to just listen to what I think is my favorite part of the episode, go to about minute 44. At minute 44, I share a funny story from a few years ago. Right before the pandemic hit, I was out with my client Steven in a bar in New York City. And I had this really amazing moment where I approached a woman with Steven and She blew me off. She, quote, rejected me. And then an hour later, she comes back over to me while I'm on the dance floor, being a wingman for my client, Steve. And she starts dancing with me. And all of a sudden, we're making out. And that's what's possible. By not taking rejection personally, don't think of an approach where a woman doesn't want to talk to you or isn't super into you. It doesn't mean you suck, you're worthless. It might just mean, hey, I'm not in the mood right now, but give me an hour. And this girl came back over to me. All of a sudden, we're kissing and making out, the same girl who rejected me. And that's a fun story.
I talk about that at the 44 minute mark. Anyway, so feel free to go to that part if you want to just listen to the best highlight moment. Otherwise, enjoy my coaching session with Ryan. And by the way, if you want one-on-one personalized coaching help, then what you can do is go to datingtransformation.com and you can book a free call with me where you can get on the phone with me. We'll talk for about 45 minutes and I'll go over your dating life with you, diagnose some of your problems, what's causing them, and also share a couple of solutions. So if you struggle with approach anxiety, or if you just aren't sure what to say, how to flirt with women, or if online dating is really bothering you and you're just not getting matches and you really want to get a lot of wonderful women in your dating life and get a great girlfriend, then go to datingtransformation.com and you can book a one-on-one consultation with me and we'll talk.
And if you don't want to do that, that's totally cool. Just listen to this episode. You'll hear me coach my boy Ryan. He is crushing it, by the way. He is doing some amazing things with approaching. And enjoy my conversation with my client, Ryan. Here we go. In our first chat, part one, we overhauled your core belief about your worthiness to attractiveness to women.
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