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Chapter 1: Why are people frustrated with public trash habits?
Ready? One, two, three. Patriots, Gayatriots, Thatriots. I nailed it. I'm doing so good on that. You nailed it. How much, what have you had it with? I've had it with people that don't pick up their trash in a public setting. Okay. Why does someone think that somebody else should be in charge of picking up their trash? And specifically, I mean like airports, basketball games, big public spaces.
People just leave their trash and I'm just like...
who do you think is picking up your trash after you why do you think you're so special you don't have to pick up your own trash it grosses me out really it's a huge turn off for me movie theaters are another place where it's really bad yeah so I mean when I go to the movies with Josh and the boys we'll all stand up and I look down and I'm like everybody grab your stuff and there always has to be a leader and the trash and you're very good about that
I'm always picking that. You're very good about like when there's trash. You always do a big sweep. Like if we're all in a car together or on a plane, you always are like, I'm doing a trash run.
Yeah. I just don't like a lot of trash. You're a trash leader. Yeah. It bugs me. And I'll tell you what else bugs me. And it's getting ready to happen because the kids are moving home. When kids just continue to throw trash in the trash can and they push it down. Yes. Instead of just taking it out. Just take it out. If it's overflowing, take it out, you stupid asshole.
No, that's a big problem. I'll tell you, Josh is the ringleader of taking out the trash in my house. Like, it could only be half full. And he looks down and he goes, I'm just going to go ahead and take it out because, you know, in a couple of minutes, it's going to be full. So he does a preemptive strike and takes it out early. I like that. Yeah. I know it's... Yeah. It's right up my alley.
Like, I feel like MAGA is so regressive. Like, do I really have to sit down and say, this is why I think dictatorships are bad and get out history books? Are we there? Do I have to say it's not? Communities are not good when we don't promote women as equals and then show all the evidence.
And it just seems like the burden of this always falls on the left to go sit down with the dipshits and have regressive conversations. And I think we all have to draw boundaries and say, we're not talking to stupid. And you can hear them all say, oh, look, you're talking down to them. And I would say, you're goddamn right we are. I'm not going to have regressive conversations wherein
I have to explain why democracy is preferable to autocracy. It's insane. And like you have to explain to somebody, the countries with the best economies statistically and throughout history have the best governments. The best governments are typically democracies. It's just insane the burden that gets put on the left. Meanwhile, the right, it's like –
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Chapter 2: How do Angie and Jennifer view the MAGA movement and its impact on society?
And then you say, oh no, actually Donald Trump did that. And they're like, oh no, I think it's fine then. So there's no rational thought. They're not tethered to reality. And it's hard to argue rational with irrational people. You also have a situation where The gaslighting, they don't want facts. They just want to be fed the confirmation bias.
So I do think it's becoming harder and harder to talk to people. My only thing that I'm thinking is now that the economy is just in a shithole tank and rural Oklahomans and rural other people and people that voted for Trump are now going to feel it so intensely economically that it might open a little caveat for some intellectual factors. Conversation. Intellectual is a big word there, Pumps.
Okay. It might open them up to looking just a little bit on the other side. But I think the first thing is they're going to have to say, my dear leader that I've pledged all this alliance to and undying loyalty fucked me. And I think that's going to be hard for people.
I think it's going to be really hard for people. And I think that the burden should be on the citizen to go find the facts. And, you know, people that watch Fox News aren't super proud of it. At least the people that I know, they kind of deny it. But you can always tell when they watch it because they immediately spout Fox News talking points.
Like if Bernie Sanders comes up, they'll say, oh, he has a vacation home. And that's a Fox News talking point. Or back when Kamala was first announced, the first talking point was, oh, she cackles and speaks in word salad. And that's a Fox News talking point. And you can always tell. But then if you ask them, oh, do you watch Fox? Oh, no, no. I watch CNN. I'm like, motherfucker.
you no more watch CNN, which equally has its own set of problems. But it's not as bad a propaganda as Fox. But I think the burden should be on people to vet their news. And it's like, we've lowered the bar so low for these people. And I feel like there is a we enable them. Yeah, we're going to come talk to you. We're going to come try to get you to come our way.
And I think we just need to keep moving along for along with progress. And I simply say to people, I believe in human rights and democracy. And most of the time the Fox viewer goes, oh, well, I do too. And I'm like, well, your vote would tell me otherwise. If you voted for Trump, you don't believe in human rights or democracy.
He said that he was going to be a dictator and you would never have to vote again. He said that. So that's antithetical to democratic ideals. And so I just I think we have to quit enabling these people, coddling these people, trying to go their way. They voted for this. They're going to suffer the consequences of it.
We're going to keep voting on your behalf because that's the kind of people we are. But on a case by case basis, I don't have a whole lot of empathy for you. And I'm going to go a little bit further. A part of me is kind of excited. That some of these country club Republicans that I know are looking at their 401ks right now going, motherfucker. Because you know what?
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Chapter 3: What would it take to wear a MAGA hat all day in public?
Yeah, it's really bad. But yeah, I there's a on my drive to and from work. There's a house that has a MAGA flag and a United States flag. And I have thought about like every day for two weeks, pulling into the driveway, knocking on the door and saying, so what do you think now? How's it going?
How's your president?
No, I'd probably get shot. Yeah, you'd get shot. But I mean, I do have this fantasy of torturing the person. All right, Kylie, what's going on on the World Wide Web?
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Well, the other day she's, you know, posting, she's like at the, you know, March Madness Games. Right. And she's like on court side, cool shit, cool people. And I respond, you're always doing cool shit with cool people. And she responds back to me, I'm lesbian. This is what we do. She just owned it. Like I'm French, you know, just I'm lesbian. I always want to respond to her. Where are you now?
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Chapter 4: How do Angie and Jennifer interpret the symbolism of the MAGA hat?
Chapter 5: What are the challenges in talking to MAGA supporters about facts and politics?
And then you say, oh no, actually Donald Trump did that. And they're like, oh no, I think it's fine then. So there's no rational thought. They're not tethered to reality. And it's hard to argue rational with irrational people. You also have a situation where The gaslighting, they don't want facts. They just want to be fed the confirmation bias.
So I do think it's becoming harder and harder to talk to people. My only thing that I'm thinking is now that the economy is just in a shithole tank and rural Oklahomans and rural other people and people that voted for Trump are now going to feel it so intensely economically that it might open a little caveat for some intellectual factors. Conversation. Intellectual is a big word there, Pumps.
Okay. It might open them up to looking just a little bit on the other side. But I think the first thing is they're going to have to say, my dear leader that I've pledged all this alliance to and undying loyalty fucked me. And I think that's going to be hard for people.
I think it's going to be really hard for people. And I think that the burden should be on the citizen to go find the facts. And, you know, people that watch Fox News aren't super proud of it. At least the people that I know, they kind of deny it. But you can always tell when they watch it because they immediately spout Fox News talking points.
Like if Bernie Sanders comes up, they'll say, oh, he has a vacation home. And that's a Fox News talking point. Or back when Kamala was first announced, the first talking point was, oh, she cackles and speaks in word salad. And that's a Fox News talking point. And you can always tell. But then if you ask them, oh, do you watch Fox? Oh, no, no. I watch CNN. I'm like, motherfucker.
you no more watch CNN, which equally has its own set of problems. But it's not as bad a propaganda as Fox. But I think the burden should be on people to vet their news. And it's like, we've lowered the bar so low for these people. And I feel like there is a we enable them. Yeah, we're going to come talk to you. We're going to come try to get you to come our way.
And I think we just need to keep moving along for along with progress. And I simply say to people, I believe in human rights and democracy. And most of the time the Fox viewer goes, oh, well, I do too. And I'm like, well, your vote would tell me otherwise. If you voted for Trump, you don't believe in human rights or democracy.
He said that he was going to be a dictator and you would never have to vote again. He said that. So that's antithetical to democratic ideals. And so I just I think we have to quit enabling these people, coddling these people, trying to go their way. They voted for this. They're going to suffer the consequences of it.
We're going to keep voting on your behalf because that's the kind of people we are. But on a case by case basis, I don't have a whole lot of empathy for you. And I'm going to go a little bit further. A part of me is kind of excited. That some of these country club Republicans that I know are looking at their 401ks right now going, motherfucker. Because you know what?
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Chapter 6: What are some recent personal stories and reviews shared by Kylie?
Oh, there's it's, it's ubiquitous. And it's like, why, why do you care? Why do you care? Take care of your own baby, right? Be in charge of you. I'll be in charge of me. Okay, next up we have people who spend money on experiences rather than material possessions tend to be happier. And so here's what I have to say about this. For sure when I go on trips, I'm happy. Like that is a great investment.
That makes me really happy. But I have to add, when I'm on the trip, I kind of like buying material things. Yeah. And both of those things kind of go hand in hand for me.
I feel like when you're on a trip, you're a little more liberated because you have more time, obviously. And then you're just in such a great mood. You're like, oh, I'm going to get this.
Yeah.
So shopping and trips for you go together. What about you? Yeah. I'm just not a huge buyer. No. I do like to go on trips, but I'm also a homebody. So I can see it both ways. Okay.
All right. Next up, we have 86% of Gen Z suffers from menu anxiety when dining in restaurants, with many too scared to order their own meals. Is that implying that somebody else is ordering their meals for them? Well, of course they are. They're mothers.
They're mothers? Yeah.
This does not surprise me one bit because I have a senior in high school right now. And the conversations we're in, I have to say to the other parent, Romans 18, I'm going to let him figure that out. Like what time to get somewhere, what time to leave a place. where to take the money, I simply am shocked at the amount of adults that are phoning me about a Roman problem.
And so it doesn't surprise me one bit that the same set of women are probably sitting around Ordering their kids' foods. And then it further doesn't surprise me one bit that there is a crisis with young boys because they have been told and coddled on nonstop by their mothers. And the best thing we can do for our boys and girls is to teach autonomy.
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Chapter 7: What do Angie and Jennifer say about the LGBTQ+ community and MAGA men?
It's embarrassing. Why do you think that he thinks... It's not embarrassing to ask for five dollars to take his wife for an anniversary dinner. A. B. Why do you think he thinks anybody gives a frog's fat ass that he's taking his wife out to dinner and or that it's their anniversary? What is wrong with this person?
I'll tell you what exactly what's wrong with this person. Kylie, put the put the bio back up. Love God. Love God. Love people. The rest takes care of itself. If you seek first his kingdom. OK, here's the issue with this guy. 100% goes to a megachurch. 100% the megachurch pastor teaches the prosperity gospel.
And he probably cash apps and Venmo's his megachurch pastor after a light little swim in the dunk tank. All right. And then he starts getting this idea, I'm going to do it too. And somebody else at the church is doing it. And they're like, oh my God, the power of prayer in God. Like, I put it on Facebook to give me $5. And then it's a pyramid scheme. Right. It's a Ponzi scheme.
100%.
I would even go so far as to say it's a teeny weeny peeny. Yeah. I mean, here's the deal. The problem is not only this guy, it's the people that give him $5. They're at fault too. It's the congregation.
The whole lot of them. Yes. The whole lot had it. All right. Who's next?
Okay. Up next, we've got Mitchell.
Hey, booze. You know, I just want to give you a shout out because y'all are amazing. I wish that y'all had been around the whole time I lived in Oklahoma. Y'all are such role models and I want to be both of y'all combined when I grow up. But I just want to tell you what I've had it with. I fucking had it with the pleasantries.
I'm sick and tired of hearing people say, oh, no, this Democrat said a bad, naughty word. Well, fuck that shit. We've been dealing with this shit for years. You know, I'm an empath. So, like, I try to be a nice person. This is why I'm with the Democrat Party. You know, we love everybody. We want everybody to be included. But obviously the nice guy routine isn't working for us. We need the bad cop.
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Chapter 8: What are some unusual news stories and social observations discussed?
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Okay, up next we've got Hannah S.
Hello, this is Hannah calling from Nebraska, and my I've had it today is twofold, but related to each other. So I have had it with the phrases playing God and God works miracles or it's a God thing. So... This I've had it stems from my job. I'm a health care worker. I work in the hospital. I'm a speech therapist.
I work with people who have had a stroke on their communication and cognitive skills. And I am so tired of patients and or their families at the end of their month long stay doing therapy with me every single day to get better. Finally going home and improved and they're saying, oh, God works miracles. This is such a God thing that he or she improved.
Bitch, no, that was my therapy and your hard work with me every single day. That was the other therapist doing a good job. That was the doctor's, you know, interventions and making sure you don't have another stroke. I just I don't get it. If everything is just preplanned for you, you might as well go home. Yeah. And that brings me to my next point of playing God.
Some of these people are wild and will deny interventions or deny a medication or whatnot because they don't want to, quote unquote, play God. OK, again, go home. If God has this preplanned, you know, life for you, you shouldn't need to be at the hospital. You don't want to play God. Also, why would God want you to have high blood pressure? I don't. I just don't get it.
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