Mind Your Being Podcast
#18 Holiday Stress, Family Boundaries & Loneliness: A Gentle Reset for the Festive Season
21 Dec 2025
The festive season is often portrayed as joyful and magical — but for many people, it can also feel overwhelming, stressful, and lonely.In this final episode of the year, Cass offers a gentle pause in the December busyness and explores why this time of year can be emotionally demanding. From work pressures and financial stress to family dynamics, perfectionism, and unmet expectations, this episode unpacks the hidden load many people carry during the holidays.Cass discusses:Why holiday stress is so commonThe pressure of perfection and expectation vs realityNavigating tricky family dynamics and setting healthy boundariesHow to protect your nervous system during emotionally charged gatheringsThe impact of loneliness at the festive season and why it matters for our healthThe importance of kindness, compassion, and our shared common humanitySupporting others who may be grieving during this time of yearThis episode also reflects on the journey of creating Mind Your Being in its first year and shares a preview of upcoming topics in 2026.Whether you celebrate Christmas, another tradition, or none at all, this episode is an invitation to slow down, reset, and approach the season with greater gentleness — for yourself and for others.https://mindyourbeing.com.au/ https://www.instagram.com/mindyourbeingpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574785410170# https://x.com/mind_yourbeing https://www.youtube.com/@MindYourBeingPodcast Thanks so much for listening, Cass x Disclaimer: The information provided on the Mind Your Being Podcast is for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only. The content shared on this podcast is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or nutritional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition. Reliance on any information provided by the Mind Your Being Podcast, its hosts, guests, or others appearing on the podcast is solely at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the podcast creators or hosts.
Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Hi everyone, I'm Cass and this is the Mind Your Being podcast. A space where we'll explore health and what it really means to care for our whole being, our physical, mental and emotional health. Each episode you'll hear from leading health and wellness experts or everyday people who share powerful insights and lived experience.
And sometimes it'll be just me sharing thoughts, tools and reflections from my own journey. More than anything, I want you to feel supported, encouraged and empowered to make informed health choices that feel right for you. If this sounds good to you, please enjoy.
Chapter 2: Why is the festive season often stressful for many people?
Hi and welcome to Mind Your Being. This is our final episode for the year.
I want to thank you all for tuning in. So for this episode, being the festive season, I really just wanted to offer an episode that is a small pause in the December busyness. Often the festive season has us feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or even a little lonely. And I want you to know you're not alone.
I think everyone at some point in this festive season gets a little overwhelmed or a little bit stressed because it ends up being such a hectic time of year. children are finishing up on school, parents may or may not be on holidays yet, there's all the Christmas present buying, there's all the shopping for food, planning holidays, planning kids activities, Christmas parties, It's a lot.
So I just wanted to do a short episode to talk about why this time of year can feel stressful for many people, how to navigate it gently. And towards the end of the episode, I'll share some of the topics we'll cover on Mind Your Being in 2026. That always sounds a little strange to say the next year for the first time, but 2026 is just around the corner.
So let's kick off with festive season stress. For many of us, this time of year comes with extra expectations and responsibilities. It's not just the shopping or the cooking, it can be the emotional drain as well. We hold the mental load of planning, organizing and caring for others.
So even if you're not hosting a Christmas event, the combination of work deadlines, family commitments and social events can leave your nervous system feeling overloaded. But it is typical for stress to feel heightened at this time of year. Add that together with hormonal changes, maybe sleep disruption, or just the sheer busyness and the fast pace of life these days.
It can make everything feel more intense, particularly at this time of year. Something I notice amongst my friends and amongst colleagues is There's a lot of pressure around the idea of the perfect festive season. If you're a regular listener of the podcast, you'll know I talk about myself as a recovering perfectionist.
And I think Christmas particularly is the time of year when perfectionist tendencies can tend to go into overdrive. If you're that way inclined, you might be striving to have the perfect meal, the perfect tree, to choose that perfect gift for someone, the perfect family gathering, that perfect sense of togetherness, just like it is in all the Christmas movies, right?
But often the gap between our expectation and reality is where the frustration lives. If you're someone that's striving for that perfect tree or that perfect gift and it's not creating a sense of stress or a sense of overwhelm for you, then happy days, like there's no problem with it. If there's no downside for you, then, you know, it's not a problem. But for some people...
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Chapter 3: How do perfectionism and expectations affect holiday experiences?
But remember, you don't need to buy a perfect holiday. Things like thoughtful gestures or just being present with someone, quality time and that connection, these things matter far more than the price tag. Something else I wanted to touch on, and I shared a post about it recently on social media, is loneliness.
It's a reality for many people during the festive season, whether you're spending it alone or if you're separated from family or you're simply feeling disconnected from people in your life. If you're already feeling lonely then this time of year can really exacerbate that feeling. It can stir up old memories, old feelings and it does impact your health. Loneliness is not good for our well-being.
We as humans are wired for social connection so it can be really hard for a lot of people. It's important to recognize that loneliness is a normal human experience at different points in time. It's not a personal failing. Even small connections like a call to a friend, a walk with a neighbor or volunteering, these things can make a meaningful difference.
If you're listening and you're feeling lonely, I'd encourage you to give yourself compassion. And if you're listening and you know someone amongst your community or your family or friends who is struggling at this time of year, who is particularly lonely, then I'd encourage you to take just a little bit of time to reach out to that person.
It could be as simple as a phone call or visiting someone, maybe for a short amount of time. I think even a small gesture of kindness towards people, it helps them to feel less alone.
I know I have an uncle who lives alone and I don't get to see him as much as I'd like to nowadays, but I'm going to make an effort this weekend to get up and visit him before Christmas and I look forward to seeing him as well. So Yeah, just encourage you to think about if you notice someone struggling, then maybe reach out to them, you know, maybe take them out for a cuppa or something like that.
So whether you celebrate Christmas, another tradition or none at all, I want to offer you goodwill, kindness and warmth this season. And I was thinking earlier today about all the different ways people celebrate or don't celebrate at this time of year. And I wanted to talk about our common humanity.
So for all the differences we have in appearance, in cultures, customs, the locations where we live, we are all more similar than we are different. So despite our differences, we all share a fundamental human experience. We may live in different locations around the world. We may experience different traditions and customs, culture, but we're all human.
We may look different on the outside, but we have more in common than we have different. So common humanity is this concept that recognises that everyone is No matter what you look like or where you live in the world, everyone desires happiness, love, connection with others and fulfillment. And all humans, no matter how rich or famous you are, suffer at various points in life.
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