TRIGGER WARNING: DURING THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS RAPE/SEXUAL ABUSE AND SUICIDE. If any of these issues may be triggering to you then you may want to refrain from listening to this episode, or skip the parts that may be triggering. Many of us have grown up trying to fit in, be liked, or not understanding the difference between our "intent" and our "impact. In this episode, Dennis Wyrzkowski shares how his trauma, autism diagnosis and focus on love have shaped the person he is today. Dennis spent many years as a monk and is now engaged to be married, while his life journey has been filled with many traumatic and challenging experiences, his healing journey and growth mindset will be an inspiration to all of you. In addition to sharing some of his lived experiences and some of the lessons he has learned, Dennis also shares the attributes of love and how each of these may be impacting your life and your relationship. Some of the topics discussed include: Voids in awareness of the world around. Difficulty in recognizing social cues. Love yourself just as you are! Questioning everything and being shamed for that. Being fearless to be yourself. The importance of accountability and responsibility. Religion can be used to weaponize. The opposite of love is indifference. Attributes of love: patience; empathy; don't be jealous, boastful, proud, arrogant or egotistical; don't be rude or offensive; be assertive and respectful; don't be self-seeking or judgmental or irritable; don't not rejoice in what is wrong; it bears and endures all things; has hope that things can get better. H.A.L.T.-don't make decisions or do things when you are "Hungry", "Angry", "Lonely" or "Tired". Consider the opportunities for growth, healing and learning in your relationship and your life. Love is the universal language and when you give it and receive it then it can be very healing. Run towards the truth. We all deserve to be loved, cherished and admired. You can follow Dennis on Instagram @dennisthemonk or email him at: [email protected] If you are experiencing any type of abuse, please contact the local hotline in your country. In the United States you can call: 1-800-799-7233. If you are having suicidal thoughts, please contact the local hotline in your country. In the United States you can call or text 988. —————————————————If you would like to buy a digital deck of the "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards", or the recently released "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Card Workbook", subscribe to the Neurodiverse Love newsletter, or get more information about the support groups that Mona facilitates for neurodiverse couples, or the neurotypical/non-autistic partners, check out her website at: www.neurodiverse love.com, or send her an email at: [email protected] Thank you for being part of the Neurodiverse Love community!

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