Chapter 1: What chaos did the ice storm bring to daily life?
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Chapter 2: What are the implications of a 'whites only' community in Arkansas?
I mean, like, what we don't do as older women. We aren't our older hoes, if you will. I got in my car the other day, and I got in my car and I took off. You know, it's cold outside. Yeah. And then, like, I was on the phone with my friend. She was like, bitch, that's some young hoe shit. Like, why did you not warm up your car? Do you warm up your car? No, I be scrubbing.
As soon as I get in that bitch.
Warm it up.
Yeah. Especially in this cold. Like you got to get the going. I've always, but I guess.
I guess I've always thought like warming your car up is something that you do with like an older car so I need to warm that bitch up well not you but I'm saying because like growing up when my dad used to always say that he had like a older car when he used to be like oh I need to go outside and warm my car up I don't see the point to do that if your car is newer though
Well, let me... The reason I ask this, because in the moment, I was thinking about, like, maybe I should have warmed my car, but I was like, what do I need to warm it up for? What difference do we make? Like, if you don't warm it up, is it gonna shut off? I pressed the gas. And it was... It started whistling. It made a noise I ain't never heard before, bitch. That hoe started whistling.
I thought somebody was catcalling me. I have never heard my car make that noise before. I swear to God. You probably just need to put a little roll on it. I don't know what it... But I was like, that's what I get. Because I'm like, it's fine, girl. You know, me and Rinka didn't go riding. Yeah. But when I tell you I have never heard my car make this noise, it was like...
Yeah, that's some young cow shit that I have forever did and I'm going to continue to do. I've never been a person to warm my car up. Now, I will say, though, my dad used to warm my car up for me when I was in, like, high school and stuff. You're lucky. Yeah, I was. I didn't have no daddy around when I was growing up. I know. I'm sorry. That's all right.
But my daddy did used to warm my car up for me. But once I moved out on my own, that shit was not going on no more. Well, your seats are heated now. They are. I know that's right. They are, but that's what I was saying. It's cold when, like... You know, I be leaving my house early in the morning. Yeah. It be cold as fuck.
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Chapter 3: How do emotions influence arguments in relationships?
I know we have something like that. I'm pretty sure, yeah. So I need to see what my body fat percentage is. And it measures your metabolic, what is it? Metabolic rate. Metabolic age or something. Oh, age? Yeah, like, if you're like, you know, I'm 36, so it'll say, mine probably 48. The age of what? Your metabolism? Metabolism, yes. It lets you know how old it is.
I need to do that in my gym and see. You should. I like it because it keeps you on track and that's how you know if you're making progress. Because I think typically a lot of people track their progress by getting on the scale, but that's a horrible way to track your progress, especially if you're somebody who you're trying to gain muscle and you're eating right. Yeah.
The scale might not be moving as quickly as you would like, but your body is probably still changing. Like, it's probably still getting tighter. You losing body fat, gaining more muscle. But you can't really tell that if you only measuring it by the scale. So, how often do you check it? Every week. Every week? So, like, how much... do you say it's like a successful week?
Like how much does your body fat go down? You're like, this is a good week. So I want to say for women and don't quote me, but it's like women, we have, we naturally have more body fat than men. So for a woman, I think a good rate is like 20% or like 30% or something like that. Mine, when I first started was like 38%. or something like that. So, like, I want to get it down to, like, 20. Okay.
But, like, in a week, if you go down, is it, like, half a percent? But it don't go down every week.
Oh, okay. It don't go down every week.
I just be wanting to make sure it ain't going up.
Okay.
I see what you're saying. Yeah. But it's not going to move every single week. But I just like to check it because I'm a little extra. Yeah. Yeah, I know that's right. I like that. But yeah, I'm going to look it up, though, so I can give y'all the accurate percentage. But yeah, you know, I want to talk about this, too, before we get into the first topic.
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Chapter 4: What poor decisions did the hosts make this week?
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They was dressed up in their uniform.
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Chapter 5: How do the hosts reflect on their emotional responses during arguments?
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I'm really more of a, bitch, I'm just not going to talk to you type of person. And I always been like that. Like, I'm not entertaining this bullshit. Like, and when we do have a conversation, if you being emotional, I'm really like, okay, bro, I'm really not entertaining this bullshit. Go away from me with this. Apollo. Yes. Like, I just, I don't be having time. Like,
And because to me also, anybody... I've just never really been into like that super toxic shit. I feel like anybody who can make me argue with them all the time or make me want to like go back and forth with them, you're not a good person to be in my life. Because I'm naturally a person who I don't be on that type of shit.
Chapter 6: What insights do they share about recognizing toxic relationships?
Yes. So if you bring that out of me, you're not really a good person that I need around me because... Why should we be dealing with each other if we always arguing? Are we always trying to say something to, like, hurt each other or have one up on each other? Or, oh, you said this, so I'm going to say this back. Like, that shit just always been, like, childish to me.
And like I said, like, maybe because I am a Taurus and, like, we just don't fucking play that shit. Like, bitch, we only about to do so much arguing before I'm ready to punch your ass.
Yeah.
So I don't even like to argue with people. Like, I remember vividly one argument that I had with this girl that I used to live with, and I was about to hit that hoe upside the head with a glass. I remember that. And luckily, my best friend was there. I remember you called me, and I was like, what the hell? The tea was hot that day.
Chapter 7: How do they address the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships?
Yeah, I was about to smack fire out that hoe. I remember that. Because, bitch, what we not about to do is keep going back and forth, especially when you standing in my room.
yes she was and wouldn't get out sitting on the edge of my bed and telling me you not about to get out oh you about to get the fuck out nasty vile or i'm gonna force your ass out yeah it was but yeah so like i just don't be with all this shit i and i feel like when you and a person respect each other y'all not gonna be having a whole bunch of arguments all the time
Yeah, I agree with that point you said too. You have to notice when people bring a certain side out of you that you really don't even, like, I'm not going to lie to you. I'm really like, when I'm around my friends and like certain people, I'm like a great ball of fun. And then I was noticing this person I was around every time. It was like I would just turn.
I'm like, it got to the point to where I didn't even recognize myself. And I had to take a step back like, girl, what are you doing? Why is every time you're around this person, you don't feel good, they're saying things to you that make you feel bad, you just get in a mode that's not you? I got a protective mode. Yeah. Because I felt like, let me protect myself against you.
Chapter 8: What advice do they offer for maintaining boundaries with difficult family members?
I should not have to feel like I need to protect myself when I'm around you. So I think that's stuff that we need to take note of. That was an excellent point. If you bring out a side of me that is not normal. Like, when I'm around my friends, we drink, we have a good time, we party. Even if we're not drinking, we're just being... girls having a good time.
That arguing shit is just... That's too much. And like I said, like, I'm just not even trying to go there with people because I am... I be taking it to the moon when I argue with people. So I just don't even want to be brought to that place. I like to stay in my happy place. But... Do you feel like when people cry or they are emotional during an argument, people don't take them as serious?
I do to a certain extent because I'm the type of person, everything makes me cry. I cry when I'm happy. I cry when I'm sad. I cry when I'm mad. That's just my... I don't know why my body does that. I cry for every emotion. So sometimes when I feel like I'm mad, like, people be like, oh, look at this weak-ass ho. It's like, no, bitch, I'm fucking mad. Mm-hmm.
So sometimes I be feeling like how Kandi used to be. That's my mama. That's my mama. That's how I be. Her voice starts shaking. That's my mama. That's how I be. No, the fuck you don't. You sound like Scooby Doo. What the fuck was that? That does not sound like Kandi. That's my mama. And I feel her because that's my mama, bitch. You got me fucked up.
So sometimes I do think crying makes people look weak, but don't get it twisted. You know what I'm saying? Now, I do think there are certain people who cry to be manipulative. That's what I was about to say. I don't think... I don't never really think that it makes people look weak. I just hate when people be crying when we get into it.
Because, bitch, you should have thought about that shit before you wanted to argue with me. Or you know what the fuck you did. So why are you surprised that we arguing? And now you want to pull out the crying card. I hate people who cry when they know what the fuck they did. And then if you do it like every time. Yeah, you be doing that shit. I can't help it. That's why her ass was looking at me.
Because you definitely used to do that all the time. And I be like, bro. Oh, I'm still crying. I can't help it. It's every argument, though. Like... Majority of the time. All right, here we go again. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. I don't do it on purpose. And honestly, I don't... I actually try not to because I know what it looks like and I know what it comes off as.
So, like, sometimes, like, if I'm arguing with a friend or somebody we're not seeing eye-to-eye, I'll be like, okay, either let's talk about this later when I can gather myself. Or I just try to like, okay, give me a second. Or I try to hold back my tears. But sometimes when I start talking, when it's my turn to talk, you know.
But I will say, I have had disagreements with friends in the past before where it's just like, girl, you trying me right now. You think that this is going to make me feel like... Oh, no, girl, you know what you did. Because I've been in situations where somebody did things purposely to me, to hurt me. And you're trying to cry as a defense mechanism. Yeah.
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