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What if the anxiety, emotional sensitivity, and overwhelm you've experienced for years are actually connected to ADHD? On this episode of SHE MD, Mary Alice sits down with board-certified psychiatrist and ADHD specialist Dr. Sasha Hamdani to unpack why ADHD is so often missed or misdiagnosed in women. They discuss the emotional side of ADHD, rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), hormones and ADHD symptoms, ADHD during perimenopause and postpartum, medication options, and why treating ADHD is about so much more than improving focus. Dr. Hamdani also shares the science behind her new book, Too Sensitive: Rejection, Resilience, and the Science of Feeling Deeply.Subscribe to SHE MD Podcast for expert tips on PMOS, endometriosis, fertility, hormonal balance, mental health, and more. 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What You’ll LearnWhy ADHD can look different in women than in menWhy women with ADHD are often diagnosed with anxiety or depression insteadHow estrogen fluctuations can affect ADHD symptoms and dopamine regulationWhat happens to ADHD symptoms during PMS, pregnancy, postpartum, perimenopause, and menopauseThe difference between stimulant and non-stimulant ADHD medicationsHow medication decisions can be personalized for women and childrenWhat rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) is and how it can affect relationships and daily lifeWhy emotional dysregulation is an important part of the ADHD conversationWhether supplements can help with ADHD symptomsWhy you can't “give yourself” ADHD by spending too much time on your phoneDr. Hamdani's favorite ADHD sleep hackKey Timestamps00:00 Welcome Dr. Sasha Hamdani02:40 Sasha's ADHD Diagnosis & Her Journey Through Medical School07:28 Why ADHD Looks Different In Women09:07 Why So Many Women Are Misdiagnosed With Anxiety & Depression10:20 How Hormones Can Make ADHD Symptoms Worse16:43 Estrogen, Menopause & ADHD Symptoms18:50 ADHD Medication vs. HRT: What's The Difference?20:56 Finding The Right ADHD Medication23:09 Stimulants Vs. Non-Stimulants & The 80/20 Approach25:26 ADHD Medication For Children31:44 Why ADHD Medication Can Stop Working During Perimenopause32:49 The Long-Term Effects Of ADHD Medication34:11 Are Medication Holidays Helpful?36:40 Understanding Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)40:59 How To Regulate Emotional Dysregulation41:36 Inside "Too Sensitive" & The Science Of Feeling Deeply44:52 Dating Advice For Women With RSD47:16 Do Supplements Actually Help ADHD?48:46 Can Your Phone Make ADHD Worse?50:16 The Biggest Misconceptions About ADHD51:05 Sasha's Favorite ADHD Hack For Better Sleep52:28 Final Thoughts & TakeawaysKey TakeawaysADHD is about much more than attention and focus. It can affect emotions, relationships, sleep, eating, executive function, and everyday life.Women are frequently missed because they may present primarily with inattentive symptoms rather than the stereotypical hyperactive presentation.Hormonal changes can worsen ADHD symptoms, particularly when estrogen drops during the menstrual cycle, postpartum period, and perimenopause.Anxiety and depression can coexist with ADHD, but they can also be diagnoses that obscure underlying ADHD.Rejection sensitive dysphoria describes an intense emotional or physical response to real or perceived rejection or criticism and can be particularly disruptive for people with ADHD.Finding the right ADHD treatment is highly individualized. Medication can be one tool alongside behavioral strategies and other forms of support.Dr. Hamdani emphasizes that the goal of ADHD medication isn't to make someone feel “perfect,” but to provide consistent support that allows them to function more like they do on a good day.Emotional sensitivity isn't necessarily something that needs to be eliminated. The goal can be learning to better understand and regulate it.Guest Bio: Dr. Sasha HamdaniDr. Sasha Hamdani is a board-certified psychiatrist and ADHD specialist who has both personal and professional experience with ADHD. After being diagnosed with ADHD as a child, she went on to become a physician and now specializes in treating ADHD and helping patients better understand the condition beyond traditional symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity. She is also the author of Too Sensitive: Rejection, Resilience, and the Science of Feeling Deeply, which explores the neuroscience of emotional sensitivity, rejection, hormones, and practical tools for managing intense emotions.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.