Ever feel like your words just... keep going? Like you started making a point, but then it multiplied into three half-finished thoughts, and now you're not even sure what you were trying to say?You're not alone. Upper-intermediate English learners often struggle with rambling—not because their English is bad, but because they're trying to sound too perfect, fill every silence, and prove they belong in the conversation.In this episode, we break down exactly why rambling happens (it's not a vocabulary problem—it's a confidence problem), and we give you 5 practical, field-tested strategies to speak more clearly and confidently:Kill the Safety Net — Stop adding "you know what I mean?" and trust that your point landedThe Power Pause — Use silence as punctuation, not something to fearOne Point, One Breath — Make one clear point per turn instead of stacking multiple thoughtsThe Exit Ramp — Give yourself permission to stop talking, even mid-thoughtFirst Answer Confidence — Trust your first instinct without rephrasing it three different waysEach strategy includes real-world examples from meetings, presentations, casual conversations, and interviews—so you can see exactly how to apply them starting today.If you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking, "Why did I say so much?"—this episode is for you. Because confident speakers aren't the ones who say the most. They're the ones who trust what they said.If you want to sign up for the free English email newsletter, go to https://speakenglishwithtiffani.com/newsletter

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