Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1468 - Adam & Lisa Have Had an Open Marriage Right from the Get Go
25 May 2026
Chapter 1: What is the story behind Adam and Lisa's open marriage?
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Chapter 2: How did Adam and Lisa navigate their first threesome experience?
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I mean, they did hit a bump in the road when they got a little bit older. And they talk about how they got through it. And HRT was the thing that helped them get through it, both of them. And now that they're both on HRT, they do talk about and they just recently went on it like only like six months ago and they're like back at it.
And that's a super interesting part of the story that happens towards the end. But we go through their whole history like they were like, you know,
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Chapter 3: What challenges did they face during Lisa's menopause?
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Hey, Adam and Lisa. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you guys doing today, this morning?
We're doing great. Doing really well. Thank you.
Yeah. So listen, you guys have been on a journey. You've been together a long time, married a long time. You've been swinging and gangbanging. I mean, doing a lot of stuff for a long time. You've been on and off, right? Had some up times, down times, or like times you did it, times you didn't.
And now I think maybe is it Lisa on hormones or both of you went on HRT and now you're back to doing it all, right? Is that the short story? Did I say it correctly?
That kind of sums it up. Yeah, we're both on HRT. You know, menopause can be a great big pain in the ass. But HRT just turned that around.
Oh, my God. How long you been on it? Do you guys both go on it together?
We did. Yeah. And probably, no, we started in January.
Oh, recent then. Yeah.
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Chapter 4: How did hormone replacement therapy impact their relationship?
Yeah. Oh, my God. So what do you do, Lisa, by the way? Are you doing pellets? Are you doing injections, creams? Like, what do you do real quick? And then we'll get into your story.
Yeah, sure. I take progesterone and testosterone cream and a thyroid compound. Oh, interesting. Okay. No estradiol? No, no estradiol at all. The testosterone has helped my body increase its own estrogen.
Okay, cool. And you're on TRT, right, Adam? Is that what you're doing? You're doing some testosterone?
Yes.
Okay. And that changed your life too?
It did.
In what ways for a guy?
Um, more energy, uh, more, more, um, physically fit. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
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Chapter 5: What were the dynamics of their first gangbang experience?
Yeah. Well, you know, because you're not like hurting your partner's feelings. You're just like, hey, let's do this. You know?
Yeah. So, you know, the truth, the real truth.
Yes.
Yeah. Okay. So, all right. Cause I mean, and I know that Lisa, you wound up to realize like you're very bi. Eventually you get Adam to be with men too, right? I don't know. I think that that comes on, you know, later, right? How does it start? Yeah. What were you gonna say, Adam?
Yeah. She turned me out.
It was all her fault. But Lisa, so where does it go from there? Okay. So you're talking, you're fantasizing about it. You're online Googling it. You're both kind of horny for the idea of doing other kinds of things, right? Yes. Yeah.
Okay. Yes. And so our first threesome was actually with one of my longtime friends that, you know, she was the one that I told everything. She tells me everything. And I used to have a car that shook from 35 to 45 miles an hour. Yeah. And she told me one day, it's been a little dry around here. I need to borrow your car and ride around the block.
Yeah. Yeah.
And I was like, or you could just, you know, borrow my husband.
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Chapter 6: How did Adam explore his sexuality with other men?
All right. So how did that first threesome happen?
And how was it? So we were living in Venice Beach and she lived down in San Diego and she came up and stayed for the weekend and just go to the beach and hang out. And yeah, I mean, it was it was 34 years ago, so I don't know if I could do a play by play.
But you don't need to because we have so much to get into. But like, was it how was your first experience with a woman and how was it seeing Adam with somebody else and all that kind of stuff?
It was amazing. And the thing that I remember the most was she said, are you sure this was the first time with a woman? Because you're really good at going down. And I was like, yay me.
Yeah, because how do you know, right?
Yeah. Yeah. And of course he had her like climbing the bed, just orgasming. So that was, that was hot to see. I'm like, oh, it's not just with me. He's pretty good at this shit. Of course, that's why I married him because he can cook and he can eat.
Oh, my God. Hilarious. So everything was good. And were there any, like, weird feelings afterwards? Or were you guys both, like, just, you know, totally into it?
No, I think that first time we were totally into it, of course, along the way, there's always that, hey, we need to talk about this. And things that bothered us in the beginning do not bother us anymore.
Yeah, with her, with our first, you know, we were such good, close friends that there was no...
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Chapter 7: What role did their friends play in their sexual adventures?
And so, you know, she told me all her thoughts and stuff on doing it. And it just kind of percolated from there.
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It doesn't happen until way later, but how did you feel about the fact of like that he was like down for that, Lisa?
Oh, I mean, I'm like all about whatever. Right.
You were like, right. Uh huh. Okay, cool. Yeah. Yeah. You were like down. Okay. So what did you, cause I know that you've done like every kind of thing you've done gang bangs, you know, like where do you go from there?
So when we were still living in Venice, we ended up at this place called the Panther Palace and we were the youngest people there by 10 years at least.
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Chapter 8: How do Adam and Lisa maintain their relationship amidst their lifestyle choices?
I'm playing with him. He's playing with, you know, he's playing with her. Well, I mean, it's just all four together, not like very separate swap. It was just there wasn't man on man, but it was all just very, very sensual. Yes. Mm hmm.
and and we were still new so we're learning on the fly you know right did you keep in touch with that couple because you like them so much yeah or it was just a one-time thing like you're at that club did you continue to go to that club or was that did you never go back no that was a one-off okay okay did you continue to go to other clubs
We did. We had a total bust at one club that was just very clicky and it wasn't our scene at all.
I don't mind a bust. I don't mind the stories where things kind of go awry. Cause I think, or like any kind of like, you know, bumps in the road that you guys hit, because I feel like those are always super interesting and very real in a story like yours, where it spans a very long time, you know, it's not like it's always perfect. Right.
Yeah. Right. Right. So, I mean, it was a little of, Oh, there's just all these clicks. And then there was like a couple that was just really aggressive. And, um, you know, oh, you know, we should do this. And, and almost like feeling up on us. And we were like, what the hell, you know?
Yeah. Not cool. I feel like every club has a vibe, right? It's rare that I hear of clubs that have a really bad vibe, but I have heard it from people that they have very bad experience at one place or another.
yeah and it was a it was a well-known place it was called the freedom acres it's now a housing complex in there but oh okay so at this point are you guys like heavily involved in the lifestyle and know that this is like for you and this is how you guys are going to roll and all that kind of good stuff oh yeah oh yeah i mean um i was in college we were busy um
you know, you're still young at this point. That's why you really are the youngest people in these clubs, right? You're saying you're like in your twenties.
Yeah. I, we got married. I was 20. I just turned 21 and he was 27.
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