Gen Z and Gen X Are Fighting Over Workplace Etiquette
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Why is the viral iced‑coffee‑in‑an‑interview debate relevant to workplace etiquette?
Now the episode can begin. All right. So as somebody who is very much a people pleaser, or maybe I should say a recovering people pleaser, it is stressing me the heck out watching how my generation acts in the workplace, specifically their entitlement and their basic disregard for professionalism. And I know, I know, before I can even get the words out, somebody's going to be saying that, you know, rules and etiquette, they have been called outdated, oppressive, patriarchal, even racist, but obviously they exist for a reason. And I feel like personally, This is a crazy idea. I feel like maybe it should be common sense to not waltz into a job interview holding a freaking iced coffee. Now before we dive into this story and I tell you my takes on this viral debate, I want to remind you guys that I am going on tour this fall.
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So let's just go ahead and dive into the story. The entire controversy began with this TikTok from a recruiter.
My Gen Z candidates are showing up to their interviews with iced coffee, iced latte in hand. And here's how I perceive that as a recruiter with 16 years of experience that deals with mostly Fortune 500, super buttoned up corporations. It is perceived from my opinion, my hiring standpoint, that when you show up with an iced coffee or an iced latte, that this interview is just like a stop on your list of errands for the day. It looks like you went to Target and you went to Starbucks. Now you're stopping by your interview. Then you're on to the next thing. It looks a little too casual to me. and again this is like your perception of how you're perceived in this 30 to 45 minutes that you have to interview this is important don't show up with iced coffee or the iced latte save that for well before the interview or after the interview go and get one but don't like waltz into your interview all casual with an iced coffee it just looks like
you didn't have time to finish your coffee beforehand.
So it's crazy that that video has now sparked this insane debate where people are talking about it on Fox News. It's over on X. When you look at the TikTok, it only has, you know, 19,000 likes, 5,000 comments. It's not like it has 2 million likes and all of these different comments, but this one video just exploded on the scene. Now diving into it, please tell me that nobody watching this video today got triggered by what she was saying. Like I know, I know, I'm hoping that all of you guys are better than that and that you can actually see what she is trying to communicate. She is saying that when you come to an interview at a company that she works for, and she works for buttoned up Fortune 500 companies, she's not talking about
Showing up to a Starbucks interview, I personally would argue that you should have the same standards regardless of whether you're going to get a job at Trader Joe's or Nike, whatever it is, RIP Nike. I think you should have the same standards, but she's talking about her experience for the types of companies that she is working for. She is saying it's just not a great look to be waltzing in, slinging around, ew. slinging around your emotional support iced coffee. And you know, had she said a sandwich or a bag of chips, I feel like people would have not lost their minds in the same way, but for some reason, young people, my generation, just have this weird emotional attachment to their iced beverages, specifically to their coffees and their matchas, and they've made it their entire personality, and therefore they can't let it go, and they see her video as a personal attack
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why is the viral iced‑coffee‑in‑an‑interview debate relevant to workplace etiquette?
0:05–4:48
2
What does the recruiter’s TikTok video reveal about Gen Z interview habits?
4:48–8:39
3
How do commenters react to the iced‑coffee rule and what does that say about generational values?
8:39–12:14
4
Why does the host argue that etiquette isn’t just about coffee but about professionalism?
12:14–15:10
5
What broader cultural issues (gentle‑parenting, participation trophies) are linked to Gen Z’s workplace behavior?
15:10–18:19
6
How are managers being asked to adapt to Gen Z’s sensitivity to criticism and feedback?
18:19–22:15
7
What examples of Gen Z resignation letters illustrate their attitude toward corporate norms?
22:15–25:58
8
What final takeaways does the host offer about balancing etiquette with personal authenticity?
25:58–26:51