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Chapter 1: How can I help my husband develop passion and drive outside of family?
I wanted to reach out and see how I can help my husband develop passion or drive outside of our family.
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What's up, Jane?
Hey, hey, doing good. Thanks so much for having me.
Of course. What's up?
Yeah, so I wanted to reach out and see how I can help my husband develop passion or drive outside of our family.
My short answer is you can't, but tell me more. Tell me more.
Okay. So yeah, I recently got the idea from Rachel Cruz on her Instagram, saw her and Winston had their annual planning date. And so I brought that to my husband and said, Hey, I think we should do this. Just talk about our goals, finances, planning for the year, what that could look like for us. And so we, we did that and it's our first time to really do something like that. And so we,
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Chapter 2: What are common challenges couples face after having children?
I'm trying to think like, man, um, like millions of women listening to this just stopped. And they're like, I wish my husband would just talk like that. So tell, tell me, tell me what you were hoping or wishing he would have said.
Yeah. So I think even just simple, like, um, you know, you know, goals or anything for himself that, you know, at work, he just wants to, you know, he doesn't really want to, you know, move up in management or, you know, any, any professional goals, you know, anything move up that just kind of like status quo, but he does not like his job at all. So, um, you know, I'll
you know, try and help them, you know, we can look for a different job or do that. But he's like, no, it's fine. I'll just do that. You know, it's providing for my family. So I'm like, okay. Um, or, you know, I mean, he doesn't really have a good set of good guy friends to where he can, you know, pick up the phone and say, Hey, let's go play golf this weekend or something like that.
Or, you know, just small, small things like that. Um, just, I guess that community or have that group of guys for accountability. So I don't know.
I just feel the pressure of, of, I mean, yeah, I, like you said, I, I don't think I can create those goals or anything for him, but if there was anything I could do to encourage him to, you know, um, I don't know, some hobbies or do something for himself, I guess, or just saying, uh, what, what, where, um,
Where is your source of, I don't want to say discontent from, but tell me some of your goals.
Yeah. So, you know, right now I'm, you know, I've got a six month old, but trying to get back into running. So I'm training for a half marathon at the end of the year. That's one, one kind of goal. And, you know, obviously just spending time with our kids too, you know, spending time with family, but yeah, Um, you know, my husband, he doesn't cook or anything.
So, I mean, I'm trying to figure out some recipes that are good for our family and that the boys will actually eat.
So you seem like incredibly nice. Are you like, do people say that you're a nice person?
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