Do You Wanna Get Caught In The Act…?
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Why does the fantasy of getting caught during sex turn people on?
Upon reflection, I've actually had quite a bit of public sex. I've had sex in car parks, at the beach, in wineries. I could not think of anything that would give me more anxiety. I absolutely love other people getting off to me getting off.
There's a reason why that is a very common trope in porn.
Hi, I'm Dee Salmon and recently I got caught... Eating a frittata. Oh. Red-handed. Let me just tell you quickly. So. I'm
gasping like it's the
biggest
crime of
all time. How dare you. Whose frittata was
it?
So my partner's. Oh. He needs more protein in the morning. Athlete, et cetera. And he came up with this recipe, put heaps of effort into it, lots of protein, eggs, cheese, ham, blah, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. And he was really proud of it and he had it in the fridge and I may have eaten three slices.
Oh. There's
like two
left. Damn. Was he pissed off? I don't know. You heard it here first. It was a mouse. But no, I'm Pippa Rasmussen and I got caught almost fair evading. Don't come for me. Look, in Melbourne, sometimes trams are free and sometimes they're not and it can get very confusing. It all depends on... Who you see coming
on
and off. Where you're going.
And where you're
going. It really depends. There's a lot of very, what is it, variables. Yeah. And I got on and then the ticket announcer actually was like, guys, we're in a not free tram zone, FYI. And I was like, oh my gosh. Crazy.
Who would have
thought? I had no idea. He actually was such an angel doing that. And he also said that it was a half price till the end of the year. I didn't know that. Remember? Because remember it was free for
a bit? Oh, yeah.
Because the government was like, here, have a bone. We feel bad about
the petrol
prices.
So we're not just talking about getting caught for no reason. This is something that we are going to be talking about in this episode. We want to explore the fantasy – The kink, the turn on of being caught having sex or doing something sexual
when
maybe you weren't supposed to, whether that's like, I don't know, in public, maybe that's like leaving the door open. Maybe that's being really loud. Maybe that's at a sex party and you're having other people watching
you. Yeah. So we're going to have a look into the fantasies that you've been having around this and whether or not you've actually gone and done it and like actually had sex in public or like gone to a sex party. And how did you feel about that? And of course, we're going to deep dive into the ethics of it.
All right, let's get into it.
So before we deep dive into this topic, I kind of want to do a little disclaimer because what we're about to talk about is kind of risky behavior in a way. And it's something that you and I would personally be like, we're obviously not saying go out there and do acts of public indecency
and have sex in public. Yeah, this isn't a how to. No. We're not doing a how-to episode. We basically, you know, we're not condoning public sex. We just want to kind of explore. The Hookup has always been a safe space for you to talk about, you know, your fantasies, the things that you're into, your kinks, your turn-ons in a way with no judgment. Yeah.
And we can't act like it's not happening. So we're just giving a space for you to tell us your stories. So, yeah, keep that in mind. And also, like we said, we will get into the ethics discussion of it and about consent and everything. So if you're like, why are they not talking about it? It's coming. Yeah. Do not worry.
Okay. So as we always do on The Hookup, we put up a poll on our Instagram at Triple J The Hookup if you're not already following us. And we asked you, does the idea of being caught turn you on? 54% of you said yes. So that's over half.
Yeah.
I'm
definitely in that kind of camp.
I think it's
hard.
As in like, okay, give us, you don't have to go specifics, but like, is there like a certain part of it that you think turns you on?
There's something exciting and thrilling about it. I don't know. I've never really fully been caught though. So I think the reality of it would be a bit more stressful. But maybe it's just everything leading up to that
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why does the fantasy of getting caught during sex turn people on?
0:00–6:29
2
What is exhibitionism, and what kinds of public-sex fantasies do people have?
6:29–10:09
3
Why do some people seek the thrill of having sex in public or at work?
10:09–15:56
4
How is consensual sex-party exhibitionism different from the fear of getting caught?
15:56–22:11
5
Is having sex in public ethical if bystanders have not consented?
22:11–27:57
6
Can sharing intimate photos or videos offer a more consensual way to be watched?
27:57–30:15
7
Is masturbating beside a sleeping partner consensual without discussing it first?
30:15–36:11
8
What is consensual voyeurism, and how does watching connect to cucking?
36:11–41:56