How to have a threesome

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What sparked the hosts' interest in discussing threesomes?

Unknown 0:02

This is an ABC podcast.

Dee Salmon 0:09

So Pip and I what it's it been a month, right? Since Hotbroke High came out. It's honestly

Pip Rasmussen 0:13

been about twenty-nine days. I've been counting them.

Dee Salmon 0:16

Twenty-one days,

Pip Rasmussen 0:16

eight hours, and ten minutes three minutes. So close. But we have been stuck on this heartbreak high obsession. I've watched it twice over. I didn't know that. Yeah.

Dee Salmon 0:28

Wow. Sometimes I don't like to tell people because it makes me seem so obsessed. So if you haven't watched Heartbreak High or you haven't finished it, maybe block it ears for a hot sec because Pip and I have nonstop been talking about a moment that happens in the series. The threesim. It's such a hot scene. And it's you and I are just like,

Pip Rasmussen 0:49

what

Dee Salmon 0:49

just

Pip Rasmussen 0:49

happened? Oh, fully. Like I was watching it and I was like, I'm sexually confused. Like this is I'm turned on, I'm aroused, I'm confused, I'm loving it. How do I get myself into one of these situations?

Dee Salmon 1:03

Like how do I have a threesome? How do I do this? Which is where this episode kind of came from. We watched that episode on of Heartbreak High and we just thought, like, okay, there was a lot that we could learn from the threesome that they had about what not to do. Like there's so much to unpack there.

Pip Rasmussen 1:19

Oh, totally. But we thought it would be really cool to do an episode on how to do that well in a safe way. In a consensual way, in a fun way as well. Um, because both you and I have never actually had a threesome. So we have some learning to do. We've got some

Dee Salmon 1:36

learning to do. So in this episode, we're gonna give you the 101. We're gonna find out how to ask for a threesome. We're gonna find out what kind of dynamics are out there, like what would be best for you if you're single, maybe you're in a couple, maybe you wanna do it with a bunch of friends, maybe you wanna do it with a bunch of strangers. Maybe you're in a poly relationship. Um, we're also gonna talk about the best positions 'cause there's so many.

Pip Rasmussen 1:58

So many things to play with. So many moving parts. So many You know what I was gonna say. Ha ha

Dee Salmon 2:06

dicks. Yeah. There's a lot there could be a lot of cock

Pip Rasmussen 2:09

involved and not to spoil heartbreak high again, but you've already been warned. Um two dudes, one girl. A dynamic I personally wanna try.

Dee Salmon 2:18

I know you do. So let's do it.

Pip Rasmussen 2:24

Pip, I have to say I was pretty surprised by our stats. Yeah, me too. We checked this up on our Instagram, um, at Triple J the Hookup, and twenty nine percent of you said you've had a threesome, feeling very left out.

Dee Salmon 2:35

I know, I was like, that's a huge chunk of people.

Pip Rasmussen 2:38

Wouldn't it have been awesome if it was thirty percent because it's like three. Anyway, that no. That one

Dee Salmon 2:43

person.

Pip Rasmussen 2:43

Come on. That could have been nice.

Dee Salmon 2:45

That's true. And I know we say it every single time, but this time we really did get so many DMs about this.

Pip Rasmussen 2:54

Yeah. There's so many different ways you can experience it, so many dynamics. And a lot of you were just so happy that you did it. Like you've made some like core memories to put in the spank bank.

Unknown 3:05

It was wild. Yeah, it was um me, my partner and a really good friend of mine who I've always had a crush on. Um and we met her, um, like we got all got NB together and Yeah. It was just really good time. We have like a sprinted benefit situation.

How can couples start a conversation about wanting a threesome?

Unknown 3:23

So me and my partner have So an else would have come and comes and join us. Well not regularly, but not say often. Um and it honestly just brings so much extra like spiciness to our sex fires. He was a mutual friend but we slap on Tinder and sort of matched and hit it off and we sort of have been exploring our sexuality with each other. But um he We were like, Oh, we should do a threesome, like just c casual conversation. We were sort of half joking. half serious and then he's like, Maybe we can have a double date and well my friend was invited but she called out last minute. So it sort of went from there and it turned into a threesome with his best friend. It was amazing. Like it lived up to my Owen Grey fantasy.

Unknown 4:05

Like it was really good. And it was nice that they were comfortable with each other and it it really flowed naturally. I normally get hired to do rope, Shibari stuff, you know, with individuals, couples and so forth.