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1133: Should Mum Be the Word When Dad's a Cheating Turd? | Feedback Friday
28 Mar 2025
Chapter 1: How should you handle discovering a family member's affair?
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Dear Jordan and Gabe, two years ago, in my early 60s, I quit my teaching job at a private high school and became an adjunct professor at a large community college teaching English and English as a second language. I absolutely love this work, despite the huge pay cut, and I've been trying to learn and do as much as I possibly can to make up for lost time.
I've taken tons of online training and professional development classes, including course design. I've made an effort to meet people in person and create connections within my department. I co-facilitated a recent training on inclusion, and I've joined several committees and even designed a newsletter for one of them.
My goal is to get hired as a full-time professor before I'm too old to think straight.
Okay, I love this. Way to hustle and look for ways to be of value. This is exactly the spirit that makes people indispensable and gets them hired. You sound like an amazing employee. Also, congrats on being able to think straight in your early 60s. I'm 45 and some days I'm like, how does this microwave thing work? I don't get it.
What do you mean the microwave? Do you just open it and put the food inside?
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Chapter 2: What should you do if you're caught between family loyalty and moral responsibility?
A wave of an emotion, it lasts 30 to 90 seconds. Anything after that is the story we're feeding to maintain it. We're trying to keep that emotion active. We're feeding off the emotion as opposed to processing or metabolizing it. We're not letting it go because there's some belief system if we let it go, we'll be victims. If we let it go, we won't be safe.
Whatever it is, why we won't let go of the emotion. Even a small trauma can feel like death because we feel helpless. And if we don't have the resilience capacity to know that someone will help us, there are tools out there to help us. If we don't inherently know that, it feels like we're going to drown. In that moment, it feels like death.
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