Building Resilient Kids: The Real Game of Youth Sports
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What is the background of Steve D'Agostino?
Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the show. We have a tremendous conversation for you today with Steve D'Agostino. He is the founder of DAGS Basketball, of Maximize Basketball. Steve is a high-performance basketball coach and trainer. He works with kids all the way as young as kindergarten up to NBA players and everyone in between. He is a big part of the renaissance that has happened in my local community. This is the best part about this podcast. Steve lives here in Albany, New York. His business is based here in Albany, New York. And he has been a major part of the sports renaissance that is happening in our area. We are consistently sending high-level basketball players to Division I schools like North Carolina, Syracuse. We currently have four local kids in the NBA. And so much of that has to do with Steve and his training. And I wanted to bring him in because he has a particular mindset, methodology, thought process that I find to be, it's, It's refreshing. It is a refreshing way of approaching this.
I'm a former high school basketball referee. I did some college basketball as well. I played sports in college. I've seen the brilliance of youth sports as well as some of the nightmares that can come with youth sports. And currently I coach my kids in both baseball and basketball as well. And what I wanted to get into with Steve was How, as parents or as coaches of youth athletes, do we align our mindset so that we can help them become what they want to be? And it's an important framing. And so much of this comes out of Steve's mindset. I love this episode. Whether you have kids in youth sports or not, you are going to enjoy this because of Concepts. that Steve talks about like creating chaotic drills and the importance of training yourself for chaotic moments. Now you can have kids or not have kids. You can have kids in sports or not have kids in sports.
And the idea of inserting yourself into chaotic situations, preparing yourself for chaotic situations so that when they happen out of the blue, you are ready for them and can perform inside of them is wonderful. and powerful. So with all that preamble, let's get on to Steve D'Agostino.
In a crude laboratory in the basement of his home.
Steve, appreciate you making the time today, my man.
Yeah, thanks for having me. I'm excited to be here.
You know, it's not very often that I get to interview someone from my hometown. You know what I mean? We're both Capital Region guys. And, you know, it's pretty cool that we're not sitting too far apart and getting to have this conversation. And one of the reasons that I wanted to have you on the show is, and I brought this up on the show before, so the audience has heard me talk about it, but I coach my own kids in sports. And I was a basketball referee at a fairly high level, both at the high school and the college level. levels for 12 years, and I've just seen it feels to me like every year the relationship between the adults and the kids becomes more toxic and you've accumulated an incredible following, not just in our local community with, with your coaching program, but nationally as well. And you working with incredibly high level players.
And what that tells me is the way you are talking about the relationship between coaches and kids, the way that you're addressing that relationship, how you're speaking, to these young athletes is really resonating. So I'd love to start with, where did your core philosophies come from? We can get into exactly what they are, but what were the inputs into your life, into your career that helped you develop those and to be such a positive influence on kids?
Yeah, 100%. So I've been lucky. So my dad was a high school coach forever before I was even born. And then he coached youth. He coached my brother all the way up and then was an assistant on our high school teams. And then once we graduated high school, he went back to being a varsity head coach. And so I've always had a good perspective from him on the youth basketball landscape, the high school basketball landscape. And then my brother went on to be a college coach locally at UAlbany, Hudson Valley, and then down in Florida at an AIA school. So I got the insight right for like the college stuff through him. And then just in my own career,
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What is the background of Steve D'Agostino?
0:00–9:54
2
How has youth sports changed in recent years?
9:54–15:26
3
What are the root causes of toxicity in youth sports?
15:26–24:16
4
How can parents support their children in youth sports?
24:16–36:31
5
When should parents shift their approach in supporting young athletes?
36:31–42:10
6
How to build resilience and competitiveness in young athletes?
42:10–47:35
7
What is the importance of learning from losses?
47:35–48:49
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