The Save The Marriage Podcast
Episodes
The 80/80 Marriage
10 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
“Marriage should be 50/50,” many a well-intentioned couple told me before they got married. I knew they were in trouble. And for all of the be...
The 2 Necessary Feelings
03 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Feelings. We all have them. What we feel, and how we make others feel. Sometimes, we have the wrong feelings. And we try to get away from those f...
Out of Nowhere?
24 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Many times, people tell me that their marriage was doing just fine (well, at least OK), and then it was in trouble, “All at once,” that they “di...
Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Believe You Can Change
17 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You've been working hard to reconnect and change yourself. You're proud of your efforts. But your spouse just isn't buying. For whatever reason, ...
Therapy or Bust!
10 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We had been talking for at least half an hour. I was discussing some thoughts about her marriage problems as she was trying to figure out what to do...
Knocked Down, Back Up
03 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You started working on saving your marriage. Good for you! And then, you hit a bump. You get knocked down. Maybe you discovered an affair, phys...
“No Closer!” — Stuck?
27 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you… some… but is still distant? More distant than you would like? Do you have to just ...
“I Want to Save My Marriage” Q & A
20 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In previous podcast episodes, I have answered questions submitted by listeners. In fact, I still do. You can email your questions by clicking here...
From Apology to Reconciling
13 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You have already journeyed to here. Maybe your relationship is hurting and in pain. Maybe your connection has gone cold. But however you got her...
Staying in the Game
06 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You might feel like "tapping out," or forfeiting, just giving up and walking away. It can be frustrating when you are trying to save a marriage, only...
What’s Your Plan?
30 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We are about to turn the page on the calendar. For me, that means a look forward. What will the new year hold? What will I bring into the new ye...
Ghosts of Relationship Past
23 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Do you settle down with a good book you have read over and over this time of year? I read my kids the exact same Christmas book every single year. ...
Caught In A Triangle
16 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Basic geometry, right? The triangle? Just three points and three lines connecting. Simple. A building block for geometric shapes of all kinds....
“I Saved My Marriage!”
09 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Many times, in the midst of trying to save a marriage, the anxiety and fears can lock you up, overwhelmed with what to do next. When that happens, th...
Rewriting the Past
02 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Sounds so philosophical, doesn't it? Your "created past." What is that? We all do it. We remember things based on our emotional state, not on w...