In this episode, I’m taking you into one of the most important (and honestly, confronting) truths when it comes to love, dating, and relationships: the love you want is real… but there are parts of you that simply cannot come with you into it.This isn’t about not being “healed enough” or needing to become a perfect version of yourself before you’re worthy of love. It’s about recognising that many women are trying to call in calm, secure, emotionally available relationships… while still holding onto identities that were built in chaos — where love felt inconsistent, uncertain, and something you had to fight for.We dive into why you can be self-aware, doing the work, and still find yourself in the same dating patterns… and the deeper shift that actually changes things. From the stories your nervous system is still running, to the uncomfortable “in-between” phase of becoming someone new in love — this episode will help you understand what’s really keeping you stuck, and what it takes to finally move forward.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why the issue isn’t that you want love too much… but that parts of you are still afraid of what receiving it would require• The difference between familiarity vs safety, and why you keep feeling drawn to the same type of person• Why strategy alone won’t change your dating patterns (and what actually will)• What the “in-between” phase of becoming secure really looks like and why it feels so uncomfortable• How your identity shapes your experience in love… and the shift that allows you to finally receive something different🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram — I’d love to hear your biggest takeaway.APPLY FOR PEACEFULLY ATTACHED - ENROLLMENT CLOSES APRIL 30TH 2026: https://www.mimiwatt.com/MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) on Instagram HERE!Watch the ‘You Are The Problem’ Replay HERE: https://www.mimiwatt.com/you-are-the-problem-replay-opt-in-landing-page

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