Society always needs healthy, masculine leadership. In this episode, I was joined by a recent guest on the podcast to chat about this. We talked about why authoritarian and dictator style leaderships are so popular and I shared one of the best leadership lessons I saw as a young adult. We talk about the shadow masculine leadership and how it uses division and segregation to come into power and divide. Connor and I discuss why men need to prioritize self-care, get in community with other men and how this moment in time during the pandemic should be a wake-up call to many. About Connor Beaton: After apprenticing with that pupil of Carl Jung, I developed an innovative approach to healing the Shadow – the part of our psyche that causes us to self-sabotage – by drawing from experiential and training-based methodologies like Jungian psychology, somatic therapy, along with transformative breathwork and meditative practices. I’ve now been working for almost a decade as a NY-based coach, teacher, and speaker to help men (and women) from all over the world walk through their darkness and grow in the realms of mental clarity, relational communication, actualizing their potential and sexual intimacy. I have a no-BS attitude coupled with a compassionate understanding of our own human limitations. I’ve coached hundreds of men (and women) through private coaching, group work, workshops, retreats and masterminds. Connect with Connor: Website | Man Talks | Facebook | Instagram | Podcast What You’ll Hear: 3:12 Why the authoritarian and dictator style leadership is so popular in culture 9:25 The death rattle of the authoritarian and dictator style leadership archetype 12:34 Why good leadership needs a sense of humbled assertiveness 14:40 One of the best leadership lessons 20:17 The division among our country causing a shadow based leader to come into power 23:24 How the shadow masculine leadership uses division and segregation 26:07 How shame is a powerful weapon 29:33 The different forms of reality 33:00 How this moment of time should be a wake-up call 35:04 Why the collective is missing the idea that we’re collective 38:30 Why men need to make a connection out of the ego and into the heart 41:00 The interplay right now between the primal and the divine 41:40 Why self-care has to stop being “uncool” 47:11 How now is an opportunity to embody self-compassion 50:45 Why now is the time to be around other men If you look at the civilized work and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, Facebook or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests and more.

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