E1191 - Dating While Pregnant | Ask Nick
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order. We hooked up and the crazy part is after he like left, he like sent me a message. Oh, like, you know, it's so nice. Blah, blah, blah, blah. Next sentence. I kid you not. I have the messages. Take care of our baby.
How's it going?
Good.
What are your names?
My name is Anna. I'm 32. Okay. And my name is Christine. I am 42.
Nice to meet you both. How can I help?
We're really here. Our question is, I'm actually, on behalf of my friend, is my friend ignoring red flags because a guy has a few good qualities.
And so are you the one who kind of wrote in or suggested at least that
Yeah. I wrote in, she was telling me about it and I said, we have to. Okay.
Is this a one-off or is this like a theme based question? I
think it's a one-off, right? The living at home with your parents is kind of a one-off, but I feel like I get probably pretty involved in giving my opinion on her dating life.
Okay. I'm just talking about like her picker because I guess we're talking about.
Oh yeah. Talk about my picker.
What about
your picker? Do I have a bad picker?
So is there a current situation going on right now that made you call in?
Yeah. So she kind of just like met this guy on a dating website and they spoke for a couple of months and he has like a lot of qualities. I feel like that are probably hard to find these days, like emotionally intelligent and things like that. But then when she ended up texting him saying like, so there's gotta be something like wrong with you. And he responded with, he lives with his parents.
Oh, okay. How old is he?
44. 44.
Is there a why?
So the why is he was divorced about
a
year, year and a half ago. And so he's like, you know, paying a lot in child support, recently divorced, parents are older. So why not move in with them, take care of them and save some money? I feel like he mostly blamed it on the divorce. Which originally maybe
makes sense. Is that how he exactly said it? I'm curious. It really comes down to how he said it. Christine, the way you framed it, it sounded like an excuse rather than a situation.
She had to force it out of him. That's okay. We were having a conversation and again, there was things like He called me babe within a week of talking to him. And I was like, let's not. And he didn't. And he respected the boundaries. And he's like, you're right. It's too much and stuff like that. So I was like, all right. At least he listens and he understands. And he's really good at communicating. These are so basic and bare minimum. I understand how absolutely ridiculous it sounds. It shouldn't be difficult to find in someone. But here we are.
How does the caller introduce the red‑flag dilemma in her friend's relationship?
Is it that difficult to find guys who... have basic
respect boundaries and can communicate.
Yeah.
Okay. I mean, at least where I'm from, but it's not like we have a bunch of people. We're in Maine. So like the population is nothing like the West coast. No,
no.
You already have like a very selected pool to choose from just to like people who have teeth, let alone that's going to sound terrible.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What product is being promoted at the very beginning of the episode?
0:00–4:03
2
How does the caller introduce the red‑flag dilemma in her friend's relationship?
4:03–20:41
3
What questions does Nick ask about the man's living situation and exit strategy?
20:41–56:25
4
How does the conversation shift to broader advice about being picky and dating strategy?
56:25–1:00:43
5
How can I give my partner a “kick in the pants” and set relationship goals?
1:00:43–1:23:03
6
What should I consider before deciding to keep dating while pregnant?
1:23:03–1:44:51
7
How do I handle judgment from my ultra‑Orthodox community after an out‑of‑wedlock pregnancy?
1:44:51–2:04:48
8
What steps can I take to move forward with therapy, self‑care, and finding my future partner?
2:04:48–2:08:15
Speakers
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