You Keep Attracting Red Flags Because You Are One (Pastor Explains) | #080 | Unlearned Wisdom
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What are the signs that your partner might be “the one”?
Would you rather somebody buy you flowers, but like in their heart they want to cheat on you? Or somebody come up to you and go, Hey, I struggle with cheating. Lead with your red flags. Because people will love a mask and then later on feel like they're con. My mom was constantly going to the pastors and going, I think I should divorce this guy. He's not changing. Alcoholic person, beating on my mom. My mom saw it as this is what God utilized to like humble me. And then in that pain, bring me closer to God. She realized I actually go to God more than even like Johnny doesn't make me go to God as much as my husband. Him specifically makes me pray. And then when my dad did change, my mom was so freaking happy.
Someone is the one when they kind of point you to the one. Every single person has to make you like love God more. Am I drifting away from God because of them? Are they drifting towards God? If you don't even learn how to love a God who's deserves all the love, how the hell are you gonna be ready to love somebody who isn't even one percent of God's character? They date because they're lonely. Some Christians get married so they can have sex. Where is your heart posture? If I
can't even read four chapters of the Bible every day, do I deserve to No
Dude, I ready to date. The number one thing that I had to unlearn was like you're not alone, you're not by yourself. Welcome back to another episode on the Unlearned Wisdom Podcast with yours truly Pastor Johnny Chang, where each episode is a gospel centered lesson that you could apply to your life today today. We got Jolly
Johnny, Airhead Aaron Air Aaron, and
Jester
Jeremy.
Jester Jeremy.
I was thinking of a better one that makes me Justify Jeremy. Justify Johnny. Mm. Airhead Aaron? Justified Johnny. And if you guys don't know what that means, look up V Friends. Those are our V Friends names. Yep, those are what would mine be? I gotta think of a good one. Justified Johnny is so good. Yeah, that's a good one. Jumbo Jeremy. I'm not jumbo anymore. You used to be. Yeah.
Where are Christian words with the J? Uh Janctified Johnny.
Just trying to twist it. Drefected Jeremy. What what would he be? The Christian one. I mean his name is just Christian Jeremy. Amen Aaron.
Oh that's actually a bar. Anointed Aaron is Anointed Aaron.
Christian V friends, let's let's make a set. Let's make a set.
Sea friends,
cuz you're you would be Jezebel Jeremy.
That's
a good one.
Sorry.
Anyways, what's today's topic?
We have some good questions today. Some some about dating, some about prison life, some about a famous figure in the news. We're gonna cover a lot of topics today, you guys. Um, Johnny, do you just wanna introduce the first question?
Yeah. What are some signs that your partner is the one? Ooh, people ask this all the time actually. I'm
curious about it. No no
no no, but yeah, yeah. We should say, okay, obviously yours is gonna be biblical sensed, but I'm gonna do the secular sense. Okay. Okay. What is the signs? She cooks and cleans and doesn't complain. And has a huge personality. Yeah, yeah, yeah. The three th the three C's. Cooks, cleans, no complaints. Cooks cleans and
complains. No complains would be and the question about finding how do you know it's the one though is actually a deep one that a lot of people ask and wonder. And something I wonder too. I was just asking my friends this like two weekends ago 'cause I was at a wedding and now all my friends have their wives. And I was curious. I'm like, and Erin was sitting there alone?
No literally. How do you know she's the one? He was like they were all asking Aaron was interviewing every single couple, super drunk, and everyone's
like, ugh. And Dad's like, how did you know? No, like really, how did you like what did you look for? No, um No, but there were just like quite certain questions that I'd say, like, did you know right away or like Did you know she was the one right away? Because these are my friends that I've known for years and all of a sudden they have a wife and yeah,
what was I'm interested.
And so most of them the consensus was, and obviously they're like looking to make sure their wife wasn't around, but like you don't know right away, at least they didn't.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What are the signs that your partner might be “the one”?
0:00–9:30
2
How do chemistry and character differ in a relationship?
9:30–19:37
3
Should a pastor be involved in relationship guidance?
19:37–30:15
4
Why is it important to lead with your red flags?
30:15–40:38
5
Can dating bring out the best in a person?
40:38–50:26
6
Is it okay to date if you struggle with reading the Bible?
50:26–1:00:18
7
Can believers date non‑believers and what does the Bible say?
1:00:18–1:09:43
8
How can you know if someone is truly sent from God?
1:09:43–1:13:35
Speakers
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