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Episodes
36. Good Enough Sex with Dr. Barry McCarthy
13 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to have good sex? Has science uncovered the truth about what feeds desire? And, is there a way to redefine your understanding of sex...
35. Changes and Choices in Relationships with Yael Haklai-Neagu
06 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When a couple relocates for one person's job, it can be difficult to adjust to the new circumstances. Yael Haklai-Neagu, a licensed Marriage and Famil...
34. Mindfulness, Music, and Relationships with Dr. Richard Gold
29 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How can you lower your levels of anxiety, stress, and negativity? Is it possible to change how you feel by changing the way that you think? And, can y...
33. How to Deal with Missing Your Affair Partner
22 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dealing with the loss of any relationship can be difficult, and the end of an affair is no different. However, because of the secretive and taboo natu...
32. Money and Your Relationships with Christine Luken
15 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Leaving a bad relationship can be scary when you don't have the resources to support yourself on your own. But, figuring out how to manage your financ...
31. A Happy Life in an Open Relationship with Susan Wenzel
08 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You should never try and fit yourself into a mold of someone else's preferences. But, deciding to go against societal norms can be challenging. So, ho...
30. Affair Recovery for Couples with Idit Sharoni
01 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Recovering from an affair is a difficult and emotional process. From dealing with shame to deciding whether or not to move forward, many couples aren'...
29. How to Have a Secret Affair
25 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Most people would agree that your partner can't fill every role in your life, but what happens when they're unwilling to explore your sexual desires? ...
28. When You're the One Who Cheats with Dr. Tammy Nelson
18 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Affairs can be intoxicating, but they can also leave you feeling confused and ashamed once the excitement wears off. So, why do people cheat, and what...
27. Recovering from Trauma in Relationships with Altagracia M. Felix
11 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Getting out of an abusive relationship is extremely difficult, but the work doesn't end there—not if you truly want to revitalize and reinvent your ...
26. Having an Affair to Save a Marriage
04 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
All relationships change over time, but how often do you renegotiate the rules surrounding them? What happens when a long and happy marriage becomes s...
25. Financial Infidelity with Adam Kol
25 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Money is a taboo subject in any situation—but when it comes to relationships, talking about finances can feel downright impossible. With financial s...
24. All About Ashley Madison with Isabella Mise
18 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Why do people cheat, and how has the COVID-19 pandemic changed infidelity? Is it even possible to have an affair during a pandemic? And, is honesty al...
23. Deciding to End a Commitment
11 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What power do commitments hold over your life? Are they positive, negative, or something to fear? And, once you commit, do you feel like you have to s...
22. The Beauty of Conflict for Couples with CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke
04 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Most people don't like conflict. In fact, many of us try to avoid it at all costs. When it comes to relationships, conflict is usually thought of as b...
21. Shameless Sex with Amy Baldwin
28 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There is often a lot of shame that comes with talking about sex. Am I sexy? Is my libido too high or too low? What if I can't get my partner to orgasm...
20. If You've Cheated on Your Partner, Do You Have to Tell Them?
21 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Here's a tricky question: should you tell your partner if you've cheated on them? While many people believe that there is a simple "yes" or "no" answe...
19. Divorce and Your Money with Shawn Leamon
14 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There is a whole mess of social pressures around considering divorce: what will your family and friends think? What will a separation do to your kids?...
18. Talking to Your Kids About Infidelity
07 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
So, you've had an affair and your family has found out about it. What now? Before you can even contemplate making a decision, the first thought that r...
17. New Year's Resolutions with Dr. Jonathan Horowitz
31 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The New Year is fast approaching and everyone's mind has turned to the same thing: resolutions for 2021. But before you start listing down all the thi...
16. How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Kids with Abigail Wald
24 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When something big happens in your life, it doesn't just affect you—it also impacts everyone around you. This is especially true when you have child...
15. Relationships and the Tarot with Courtney Moore
17 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What's in the cards for the future of your romantic relationships? Undying love? Heartbreak? Freedom—or constraints? If you're curious to know what ...
14. So You Were Cheated On—Now What?
10 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt responsible for your partner's feelings? When they're reacting to something you've done, it can be hard not to feel like it's your ...
13. A Private Investigator's Perspective on Infidelity with Art Tilis
03 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We've all seen the movies: someone suspects they're being cheated on, so they call a private investigator to follow their partner in a high-speed chas...
12. Legal Implications of Infidelity with Rodrigo Dias
26 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to infidelity, there are a lot of different thoughts that may run through someone's mind. Why did this happen? Did I do something wrong?...
11. Personal Stories of Infidelity with Suzannah Weiss
19 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
There's a lot of black and white thinking when it comes to the way we regard infidelity as a society. You're either cheating or you're not; you're eit...
10. Polyamory with Magenta Brooks
12 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Depending on who you're talking to, polyamory can be a bad word. Many people believe that entering a poly relationship is an excuse to have your cake ...
9. Debunking Myths About Infidelity
05 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why are you married? Did you fall in love with another person and come to a decision to share your lives together with official documentation? Did you...
8. So You're Having an Affair—Now What?
29 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Guilt. Shame. Embarrassment. These are often the first few words that come to mind when we talk about affairs. What you might not know, however, is th...
7. Nonviolent Communication with Joyce Swaving
22 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
So, you're in a monogamous relationship and you've been seeing someone outside of it. Or, perhaps you've found out that your partner has another relat...
6. Historical Perspectives on Marriage with Dr. Devon Smith
15 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The college degree, the 9-5 office job, the white picket fence, and, most importantly, the loving spouse and 2.5 children: once you've achieved these,...
5. Decision-Making and Your Power to Choose
08 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Think about the last time you were in a difficult situation. How did you maneuver it? Were you ultimately able to choose how to move forward? And most...
4. Safe Sex Basics with Lisa Bayani
01 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's that pivotal scene in the movie: The couple who has been at odds is about to consummate their passion and get into bed. Things are getting steamy...
2. Emotions 101
24 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How do you respond to conflict? Do you shut down and try to push the discomfort away? Or, do you barrel through the situation and burn down anything i...
3. Emotions, Relationships, and the Body
24 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The human spectrum of emotion is vast; we can feel any number of them in any given hour. But, with the way that we're socially taught how to express a...
1. An Introduction to the New Podcast
10 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been in a sticky situation and felt unable to reach out to a friend or family member for advice? What if that sticky situation was an af...