Adam Lane Smith
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I had one couple where they had said had sex once a year for 10 years, the last 10 years.
And I asked him why.
And he looked at her and she said, well, he doesn't ask me for it.
That was why.
That was a big piece of why.
Like, he wouldn't pursue.
He was passive-aggressive about it.
He was just sad.
He assumed the worst.
She had some medical issues going on, and they got out of the habit of it, and they never really talked about it.
They couldn't have the confrontation about it.
They couldn't cooperate.
They couldn't build the stuff together.
They couldn't do it.
So they just didn't for 10 years.
Jeez.
They came into me, sex three times a week.
Two months.
That's awesome.
Two months it took them to get to sex three times a week, and she was loving it.