Aiko Bethea
speaker
408 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 23 Jul
Aiko Bethea’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It's all the things that get in the way of us being courageous leaders because it's not the fear, it's the armor, like all of the what ifs.
But once somebody has named it, now it's there.
Can't change what you're not aware of.
But once I realize what the barrier is,
I'm like, oh man, what do I have to do about it?
And I'm unwilling to do it.
Once I realize what the castle in the sky looks like, how I want it to be with Beth, how I want to feel, I don't want to feel pissed off my shoulders are tight and blah, blah, blah.
I don't want that.
How do I want to feel?
I have an idea of how I want it to feel.
So now I'll know it when I get to that place.
But I also can name what is getting in the way.
And most of us, how do we jump right into, this is what you need to do, one, two, and three, but not actually bringing the person back into what their solve is and what their intrinsic motivation is.
Because the answer I would have given to Brene would have been like, well, shit, right?
Because it would have been my fix and my thing, and I would have felt great and walked off.
But you would have still been sitting with it.
But you have now an idea of, this is how I want it to be.
And you realize, for me to be able to get there, I need to do this other thing.
Because you know yourself well enough.
A lot of people don't know, I need to work out.
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