Alexandra Janelli
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2,142 appearances
43 recordings
3 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 6d ago
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I was lucky enough to go back to get my coaching certification and become an IFC coach
And one of the most powerful things I learned was how to ask a question and stay out of fix-it mode.
Because we come into this place from we want to help, right?
We're not doing this to go become millionaires.
Like, sure, if that happens, it's wonderful.
But we want to help.
And that helping typically can end up in a fix-it mode.
And the biggest lesson you have to learn is stop fixing, be curious, right?
The client is going to give you everything you need.
to help them but you have to have that curiosity to be able to ask the right questions and understand a person in context right because their presenting problem might not make any sense to you right it's like i love hugging like trees and it's like okay that's weird and i'm gonna judge you
But if you understand the context of how it started, why it started, what it's helping with, where the loneliness was, whatever it might be, how you're going to understand it.
And you're going to go, what do you need?
What did that child need?
And you're going to get all the information you need without having to work hard.
You just work smart.
And then you can take one of your scripts and retrofit it.
If you need a script, retrofit it to the words, the information, the visuals that they've used and the metaphor they've used.
So I'd love that to be taught.
the curiosity, the context, how to ask a really good question.
And that's the premise of what my book is really around.
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