Alexis Fernandez
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 8 Jul
Alexis Fernandez’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Happy Hour with Lucy & Nikki · Attachment Styles ft. Alexis Fernandez | Part Two · 8 Jul 2026
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Because unless you literally know for a fact that you are super jealous and super... You also have to ask yourself, is this just like a gut feeling?
Because there's a difference between...
literally lying to yourself and saying, oh, no, it's just anxiety.
It's just not being anxious versus like, why am I feeling this?
Are there tells here that I'm looking into and there's something behind it?
move through that like I've got a friend who's very much like that and who is like oh well he's really jealous but I'm also really jealous too so it's fine I do believe we're talking about the same person probably probably maybe yeah and well we have a friend but the thing that I always bring it back to is but ultimately that's all well and good for you to call it as it is and say we're both jealous people but
You're saying you don't trust them and you're saying that they don't trust you and is that a dynamic that you're genuinely happy with?
Seeing it through to the very end of this person, like living and breathing alongside someone who does not trust you.
Especially when you're not like... If you were someone who was behaved inappropriately all the time and they felt, okay, fine.
But like you've given them no reason.
And if they keep feeling that for no... You know, it's hard to live with.
It's very hard to live with.
Like for this girl?
And I think it does come down to this need to focus on yourself.
It's all an internal thing.
What's going on, as long as like you said, if there's no actual inappropriate behavior going on and you're creating this, it's kind of like if you're not enough without them, you're not enough with them.
If you feel not enough and a partner will complete me and then you get in that relationship, this is why you start digging for things because you still don't feel enough.
You still haven't gotten to the root of the problem, which is working on your relationship with yourself.
Because then you're still like, I'm still unsatisfied.
Something's wrong.
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