Alexis Fernandez

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1,208 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 8 Jul

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Happy Hour with Lucy & Nikki · Attachment Styles ft. Alexis Fernandez | Part Two · 8 Jul 2026 podcast

So basically then you can date me.

Dead Lucy.

But I always recommend you got to do things that make you less fearful of being alone.

You know, so for example...

If I put all my eggs in one basket as this is the person that is my person and I can't risk losing them, I'm going to be less...

less proactive with my life and more reactive.

I'm going to be like keeping you close and trying to control you staying close and I don't want you texting that person because I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't.

And then I'm going to be more and more fearful, more and more fearful and that's going to control my life.

So I spend my whole life living it so safe that then I don't live my life at all, really.

Instead of thinking, okay, I can't ultimately control what my partner does.

Anxious or not, if they're going to leave, they're going to leave.

But I can increase the chances of us having a happy relationship if I then put a little bit of that focus back onto me and really filling up my cup and making myself the best version of myself.

I'm going to show up as a better partner, but I'm going to have a little bit more fun in my life.

Yeah.

You know, am I going to do a solo trip with my friends?

Am I going to do this?

I'm going to start spending a bit more time on my own.

Like, what's the reasoning?

That's another thing.

Yeah.

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