Alexis Fernandez

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1,208 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 8 Jul

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But I think that one thing that a lot of people do is they expect every facet of their life to be ticked off by what their partner provides.

But it's also important to note, obviously, the main core, core values have to align.

Yeah.

But then you've also got to ask yourself, am I wanting every single one of my needs to be met by my partner?

Because, for example, there are some people that get certain needs met by their girlfriends and they don't need them met by their partner.

It's like you've also got to look at, you know, what has to be met by my partner, non-negotiable, and what would be a bonus.

And then it allows you to be a bit more flexible.

You know how some people are like, oh, I could never like someone that likes this or I could never.

It's like, relax, why?

Is it a moral thing or a value-based thing?

Or is it actually, it's really not the end of the world because I'm quite independent and I can like this and they can like that.

We do our own thing and we come together.

So that's just an example.

But I think sometimes we think, let's say you're the most adventurous person in the world, which you are, Lucy, like you're pretty adventurous.

You could meet... Like adventurous in the sense of like you're spontaneous, you're like up and going.

Certainly not doing many hikes, but anyway.

I'm not talking about outdoorsy.

I'm not talking about outdoors.

I'm talking about in the scheme of like when humans want stability versus adventure.

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