Alison Fagan
speaker
593 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 19 Jul
Alison Fagan’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Like a relationship is not a courtroom.
Actually, the facts are not important.
It's about how you feel in response to the situation.
And so just because you um get accused of arriving late and you arrive 30 minutes later.
And actually it's not thirty minutes, it's only twenty five minutes.
You're always exaggerating.
You you know, you blow things out of the out of proportion all the time.
That moves completely away from I feel disrespected, I feel like I'm not important to you, I was standing for a half an hour, I didn't know if you were coming, rather than
Being told that you're exaggerating the facts the whole time.
So it's not about being right.
It's about the person's experience and what they're feeling and what's underneath the headline.
Very often we only hear the line of attack if we can come from the feeling of really what's going on, even much better chance of actually learning from the argument.
I think that's a really important thing is what what what are we learning here?
What's changing?
If you're having the same argument over and over and nothing is getting
resolved, you're just retreating into maybe a white flag syndrome.
Um nothing changes, the same argument arises.
Whereas if you can look at it and think
Hang on a minute.
What am I accountable for here?
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